Found out
Posted by Anonymous in Family on Nov 7th, 2009 | 6 commentsA few days ago, my younger sister and I found extremely incriminating evidence that our mom is cheating on our dad. I don’t want to confront her, and I don’t know who I can tell. I can’t tell my teachers because of who my dad is, and my friends recently deserted me. And I don’t trust anyone else enough to tell them. What makes me feel bad though is that even though I defended her to my sister, the signs show. Even I’ve noticed a lack of… affection in between my parents. My mom spends more time on her computer and webcam now than ever before, even though she says she doesn’t. My dad is absolutely clueless. I don’t know what to do. I’m trying to be strong for my sister, but I have so much piled on my shoulders right now, I don’t know how much longer I can stay standing.
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Well I am that mom who cheated and never took my kids feelings into consideration. I don’t know your mom or her reasons. Your father knows something between is keeping them apart. Yet the love for you kids may be what holds them together. Love can be challenging, don’t be so quick to judge.talk to her, write an email. Just don’t hold it in
Well 1st off why do you care? Its really none of your business. Have you ever thought maybe he already knows? Maybe they have an arraingment.
The point is that whatever issues they have or don’t have its not up to you to intervene cause in all likelihood you will only make things if anything worst.
This should not be weighing on your shoulders,if the evidence turnes out to be true then leave it on your moms shoulders,you and your sister did nothing to cause this indescretion,even though you and your sister will feel the effects remember this is an adult problem so let them take care of the problem and don’t let them put you in the middle of it,you love both your parents and should not have to pick sides.I hope all turns out well for you and your sister.
You have to tell your Dad, period, end of story. Good Luck
Well.. do you want a family that is damaged but together, or a family repairing itself while it is apart?
Keylogger for proof of any allegations. History lists, favorites, stuff like that.
A child, no matter what age, can never truly know what goes on between their parents. They cannot fully know what each parent is, or isn’t aware of. This is not your responsibility. You could be right or your could be wrong. The best thing you and your sister can do is focus on your life. School, friends and positive activities. You can also love your parents unconditionally and pray for the best possible outcome. Best wishes.