RSSThings have been changed?
Thanks everyone, specially who replied to my last confession on “Am I doing the biggest Mistake?”. Now it seems that something is changed. When I decided to breakup with my girlfriend, she was silent for a few days. After that now she is begging to me not to leave her. She will not do the same and she is realizing her fault now. She loves me and doesn’t want to loose me. But the problem to me is- can I believe her? Can she really change her attitude and mind? Is this realization will last long? I am again confused that I have taken a very hard decision already and made my mind very strong. So is it wise to believe her and go for the relationship again? I don’t know.
Please advice!!!!!!!
My previous confession:
“Am I doing the biggest Mistake?”
I am very conservative person. I fall in love at the age of 22. Now I am 24+ doing MBA. Out relationship is about for 2 years. She is the one and only love in my life. I love her more than anything and I also love my family very much. But I cannot choose one. My family is not accepting me to marry her for many reasons which and I cannot blame them for that as they are doing what they should do-I know! I have protested them for more than a years but I failed to make them accept her. Now why I am confused to decide whether to keep relation with her or not are: She is very dominative, less carrying and does anything she wish when she is angry. She has little respect to my family which I cannot stand. She is extrovert in nature. And many more of her nature I do not like. Knowing these things she insists of doing all the things. If I try to control her, she goes more out of control. I am still love her but I am now confused “Can I be happy with her? Should I take the risk of loosing my family for her? If I break up with her now, will I regreat at future for loosing my love? What would happen to me if I make a choice?”
I am confused! I am too young about life. Please people who knows life better, advise me!!!!!!!!!!
Towfiq on March 30th 2008 in Confused
Samarah said on 31 Mar 2008 at 2:50 pm # Quote
you have proberly heard this a thousand times before but blood is thicker than water and by the sounds of your last comment your girlfriend is a bitch she has no respect for you or your family and proberly never will i no you love this girl but there are other more caring girls out there like me i treat my boyfriends family like my own and respect them so much i say it is best you break up with her but am not teling you what to do whatever you do i hope you lead a happy and lovig life i hope your girlfriend sees some sense in what she is doin she is hurting not only you but your family i hope i helped you a little bit but what ever you may chose to do good luck