RSSStill in love
Its been 6 years since we broke up. At first, I was young (19 years old) and I thought I was doing the right thing. I completely broke his heart because I was his high school sweet heart…and the love of his life. As the years go by, I am 25 and still in love with him. Ive had my share of relationships and currenly in one now, for 2 1/2 years but still cant get my ex out of my head. I guess you can say “he’s just one of those ex’s you will never forget”.
A couple of months ago, he found me on MySpace and he wrote me a message, just a general “hey how are you message”, nothing too special. Ever since then I talk to him almost every week. But Im still in love with him, even though I have a boyfriend, I wish it were him. He tells me I should break up with my boyfriend because he knows I am not happy and I dont love him anymore. But why should I break up with him? My ex is currenly in those “I only want to have sex phases” and he’s even told me we should hook up and have sex just one last time.
Am I setting myself up for failure? I know that as long as he’s around, even in my head, Ill never be happy. What should I do? Should I tell him how I feel? Or just move on with my life….6 years later?
JC on May 22nd 2008 in Confused
geoff said on 22 May 2008 at 1:55 am # Quote
discuss it with him tell him u constantly think of him maybe it was a regret 4 u 2 brake it off with him. if he tells u he still wants then take a chance but he may screw u over.is he worth the risk of getting screwed over by him.
Real Talk said on 22 May 2008 at 4:51 am # Quote
You should always tell someone how you fell. Whatever the situation is about. Say whats up and don’t live in fear.
sophia said on 22 May 2008 at 3:39 pm # Quote
i think you have to move on if you broke up with him it must have been for a good reasson you whould just be turning back on your decision.
you should tell your boyfriend, he needs to know, and maybe breakup. It wont be fair to you/him if you continue knowing you like someone eles as for your ex if you want to come back to him make its for good and pure reassons and not for sex. if so maybe his not the one
goodluck
Virtue said on 22 May 2008 at 3:43 pm # Quote
Well, from what you describe of him, he doesnt want to be with you for a long term period, although you do.
So you got two options, let him have his way and you can be in that happy state of mind, or, try to let your emotions die for him, and perhaps, live out that healthier decision.
Sex shouldnt be the reason why he should be contacting you..
R said on 01 Jun 2008 at 12:03 pm # Quote
Thinking of the one you once loved is normal.. wanting to be with them or still loving them is also still normal. but it is unfair to be with one man and love another.. its unfair for the other man. maybe your just confussed. if the guy is worth it then go for it.. but only after he is over the sex phase other wise you would end up shattered and broken.. but think of the reason why you ended it in the first place maybe that will help with everything.