not so sure of my self
some times i wonder if i like girls. i often get turned on by watch lesbian porn or by watching a picture of an exploited female. dont get me wrong i like guys alot, i’m 16 and i’ve already had 6 real boyfriends, and i have kissed dem cuddle with them, everything except lost my virginity with a guy. but i sometimes feel like i would want to do thing with girls like i’ve done with guys. i dont want to be a lesbian because i’m afraid of what others might say or how my family wound react to it. i dont really kno if this is just a stage i’m going through, where i want to experiment or what but at times i ‘crave’ making out with girls touching them and being with girls. but i still very much likedoing stuff with my guys….
beatifully broken on August 25th 2008 in Confused
me said on 25 Aug 2008 at 12:29 pm # Quote
its nothing wrong with some experimenting if your just curios. and you could like both girls and guys, then your bi.
CherryKiss said on 25 Aug 2008 at 2:01 pm # Quote
Don’t worry.
I feel exactly the same that you do. That’s only a part of your live.
Just live your life and soon you’ll forget about this things. And don’t think it’s bad if it doesn’t go away, then it must me a kind of sexual fantasy, everyone has one, at least xD.
You must worry if you feel that you’re FALLING IN LOVE with some other girl.
Live on!
Peace,
CherryKiss
Lovela said on 26 Aug 2008 at 7:43 am # Quote
I know what you mean I also get turned on by other girls some time, but I really like guys. I’m not a ******* and I’m not bi and its not because I’m afraid of what other people will think its just because I’m not. I don’t think that there’s anything wrong when you sometimes get a little exacted be someone of your own sex I think a lot of people do they just don’t say it. So don’t worry but if you think that maybe you should experiment and try to find out whether you might really be a ******* or be bi do it but if you think you’ll might regret it you shouldn’t until you are completely sure.
Baby love said on 26 Aug 2008 at 6:56 pm # Quote
I’m exactly the same i watch ******* porn all the time and have kissed my best friend butt i’m not a ******* i just get urges sometimes for girls i have a boyfriend who i’m happy with. And hes cool with it, just stay true to yourself :D x x x
just as confused said on 28 Aug 2008 at 2:27 pm # Quote
i am so turned on by ******* porn, yet in person i am so turned on by guys.
there was even a point when the sight of penises disgusted me, but that lasted only about a week or two.
i don’t think i’d ever see myself doing anything with a girl that i’d do with a guy though.
girls are just so beautiful.
i wouldn’t consider myself bi sexual or *******, i just don’t know what i want yet and i have quite a while to decide.
Well of course,... said on 05 Sep 2008 at 7:07 am # Quote
I feel exactly the same way.. I look at a girl and instantly I want to make out with her… I also enjoy ******* porn… Well, of course I’m a guy tho… lol… don’t worry this sort of thing tends to sort itself out.
greenmind said on 06 Sep 2008 at 1:36 am # Quote
be happy… thats the only thing that evryone can do… being confused is just a state of puberty… just feel what makes you happy then decide if u’ll continue or not..
iknow said on 23 Sep 2008 at 8:42 pm # Quote
Being a ******* isn’t the worst thing in the world either. I knew from about the age of 12 that I was and admitted it to people at your age that I like girls.
Apart from everyone being really shocked, and the odd person finding out while I was at school and making a side remark, it’s been smooth sailing.
Do what your heart desires whether it be girls or boys and don’t overthink it for years like I did.
Its All Normal! said on 27 Sep 2008 at 3:21 am # Quote
Hey dont worry gurl…after so many ppl sayin dey feel exactly d same way, Im sure ur pretty relieved…n well heres me adding to d above list! Most gurls get excited watchin ******* porn….jus like guys! Its jus normal for gurls to get aroused by other gurls as dey are so beautiful n ave amazing bodies! Also, its common fr mny gurls to want to make out n do stuff wid other gurls…n infact many do dat, athough dey arent bisexual or lesbians! Straight oriented gals also like to watch ******* porn cuz its very exciting n stimulating to the senses, and wanna do things wid gurls out of curiosity n ecstasy! Besides, its easier for girls to connect wid other girls n hv some fun…but dat doesnt make you a ******* honey! I’m ur age n have spent quiet alotta time pondering over all dat stuff in mah preteens n early teenage years…but its nothin 2 worry about…jus’ a common phenomenon! Make bfs, be safe, donot lose ur virginity before time…n have fun all along!
anonyms said on 01 Oct 2008 at 11:55 pm # Quote
Hei..u knw wat m just like u i gues..i feel girls are made ike dat..their curves.the body is such that demands to be explored and discovered..so for example even a glimpse of cleavage can leave many girls to see more of it…so its absolutly nrmal..we are so beautifuly made unlike guys who have no such feature in their body..(except the *****..which also isnt as sexually exitin as the breasts or a female ass)..so i gues its in the atonomy..