Making Babies
Posted by Ana in Confused on Dec 2nd, 2009 | 7 commentsI want a child so bad it hurts. I’m single with almost zero prospects of a serious relationship. I’m only 23, but I have medical issues that can make it hard if not impossible to have children, and as time goes on, the chances lower.. I’m thinking of stopping my birth control and having an “accidental on purpose” conception. I will never trap anyone into anything, but at the same time I can’t take a child away from a father, even if he doesn’t know the child exists. I never imagined I could do this, but as time goes on, I’m seriously considering it..
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and after you have a kid, who will be paying or its next 18 years besides welfare?
Would love to make a babue … Never have I’m 40 :( … Lol lets meet I’ll have one with you! :)
Mac, that’s really harsh.
The tough part young lady is that he is right. I’m on the back side of it all after seeing my two children graduate collage and my daughter married off, I would say their entire lives from private schools to collage, birthdays and Christmas, all the other holidays, I probably forked out nearly three hundred thousand dollars to send my children off into this insane world semi prepared.
Life is so hard and you are so young. I would suggest you surround yourself with children. Get a job at a nursery. – Volunteer if you cannot find one. Donate your time at hospitals or become a nanny.
I’m not sure what your situation is but try e-harmony and see if you can’t find a man with children. – For goodness sakes, I should would have appreciated a wife at home to help me raise mine but I was too busy working to support them to find someone!
What ever you do, don’t bring another person into this world by a mother who isn’t prepared for the real hardship life gives. It is tough, and that child that you want so bad will become the noose around your neck. – Believe me, you aren’t ready to do this, and especially alone.
God bless
I would go for it and try and get pregnant. Believe me, you will regret not having kids. Among childless women, not having kids was counted as the biggest regret and sorrow of their lives.
As long as you don’t require anything from him, your not trapping a man if you get pregnant by him. His life wouldn’t change either way. This is actually becoming much more common and acceptable. So I really wouldn’t worry about it.
Over half of today’s children grow up without a father. Yet most of them grow up successfully.
What matters is the devotion of the mother and a stable environment in which to raise him/her. You sound to me like you would be a very loving and caring mother.
Don’t listen to people when they tell you how awful it is to have children and how expensive and what a burden they are. Truth is, being a mom one of the most amazing experiences a woman can have.
Why don’t you just adopt? Problem solved.
Problem is not solved. the entire purpose you live on this planet is to have babies. stoopid people that live a life without children are a waste of space, what was the point of living, if your genes have not been passed down to the next generation. there are sorry people out there that can’t have children, and that’s sad. Just open a vein right now, cuz you are just wasting all the air, water and land for the people that can have babies.
I would suggest in getting pregnant, what ever way you can, cuz your future depends on it. If you die without having babies, your life was meaningless. If you adopt, maybe you think you will feel good, but you just gave a free meal ticket to someone else’s sperm and got SCAMMED big time.
Have a baby!!!
women have kids and include the father in their lives all the time.
It’s really up to you.