Lesbian??
Posted by AnonymousV in Confused on Jan 14th, 2009 | 10 commentsSo I’m a lesbian and I’ve been with the same woman for close to five years now. I’ve started getting on xtube a few nights a week, sometimes more. But the only thing that turns me on much on there is men masturbating or 2 men having sex. Some of the straght sex is good…. but I don’t like any of the lesbian stuff on there. I’ve started getting real turned on by the thought of d**k. What’s going on here?
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Well, for starters most ‘lesbian porn’ isn’t much like lesbian sex. Heels, full makeup – les porn is manufactured for the sole pleasure of straight men. Maybe after 5 years you just need some ‘spice’ to your sex life? Which leads to thinking outside of your norm….
I wouldn’t worry about the feelings unless you start looking at men in general in a new light.
well really you can get turned on by that but you can still be a lesbian, it dosen’t mean you’re changing your sexuality. Fro example me I’m straight I have a fiance and I love him and I get relly turned on by him, but sometimes I like to see lesbian porn at first I thought I was maybe gay or something but I know I’m not I’m very sure of my sexuality and I know what I like, it’s not like I haven’t had a chance to be with a women but I was never with them because I know I like men and I only like to see lesbian porn, and know even my fiance knows and he even sees it with me sometimes…. so don’t worry i don’t think it’s any thing wrong but if you think that you just might be liking someting else take some time for your self and figure it out.
thanks! i was starting to feel guilty or like something was wrong with me! I think maybe because i’m not ever with men that that makes the fantasy more erotic or something. i tried really hard to be straight when i was younger, but i just couldn’t be that way.
hey – ive been with my gf for 4 years and the same things cross my mind. i dont like les porn and the only porn i watch is the same that you seem to be watching. i am not wanting men, nor do i want to be with one, i think its just the curiosity of what we haven’t experienced.
I am a lesbian and the only porn I like is gay male porn. It turns me on. I think it’s because they’re obviously aroused. With women, we sort of assume that they’re doing it for a paycheck, or that they’re not really lesbians, or because of some horrible sexual abuse in their past. I feel guilty watching lesbian porn, but I don’t when I watch gay male porn.
dont worry i like gay porn too…but the thought of being with another man is disgusting…to me. Just thought you might like some input from a man.
Most people will hate me for saying this, but Jesus said people will hate Christians because they hated Him first. I think the desire to be with a man is your conscience trying to get a hold of your. God didn’t make women to be with women. God said it was not good for man to be alone, and thus he created women to be companions with men. We are meant for something so much more beautiful than the world’s view of love. I’m praying you find God and experience His Love. It’ll blow you away.
I don’t think it has anything to do with God’s plan or any kind of conscience. I find the same porn attractive and arousing and I have been with my gf for 3 years. I think that you can like all types of porn, the basic principles are the same. An intense connection and magnetism drawing two people together to have a passionate and albeit steamy and oh so wonderful experience. It seems like many people here have similar experiences so you are definately not alone.
To voice of truth- we were all made in god’s image, gay, straight, and undecided. gay doesnt equal “straying from the flock”
to lesbian- same as everyone else…i watch lesbian porn(made by lesbians for lesbians which i a lot better than the fake boobs/long ass nails lez porn) straight porn, and gay man porn, and i agree i think it is because it isnt the norm for us. honestly i am really glad you posted this cuz i have been feeling the same way and it makes me feel not so alone :) maybe you would benefit from strap-on sex?
Hey thanks everyone for the comments, I don’t feel so alone or weird LOL