RSSIts complicated..
I love her.. I’ve loved her for the past 2 years.. i know she loves me back.. but its been difficult.. She went off with this boy, and ive tried soo hard to get her back, she’s cheated on him with me, but i dont think she wants a relationship with me anymore.. I want to shout and scream and confess my love for her to the world.. but i will be judged.. the only thing wrong with us at the moment is my anger, her leaving me for this boy has triggered off my anger in a massive way.. i hit her almost everyday, but she doesnt understand why.. I hate hurting her because i love her..
Please some one help me!!
Believe..Xx on July 16th 2008 in Confused
leaveher said on 16 Jul 2008 at 9:34 am # Quote
You don’t deserve anyone if you would hit them! That’s not love; that’s you being selfish. Take some anger management classes and then you’ll deserve love.
Joseph said on 16 Jul 2008 at 1:15 pm # Quote
DUDE AS MUCH AS EXTEND AND ATTA BOY FOR BEING HONEST HERE, I CAN’T BELIEVE THAT YOU HIT WHO YOU LOVE. GET A GRASP ON THAT FIRST!
UNACCEPTABLE !!!!!!!!
YOU DON’T NEED TO BE WITH ANYONE RIGHT NOW TILL YOU KNOW HOW TO TREAT SOMEONE.
I’M GOING TO BE BLUNT…YOU DON’T NEED TO JOIN A CHURCH AND START JUMPING PEWS OR CONTACT DR. PHILL, YOU JUST NEED TO GO BEFORE GOD AND ASK HIM TO HELP YOU. CONFESS YOUR WRONG DOING AND CUT OFF YOUR RELATIONSHIP FROM HER AND WORK, WORK, WORK, WORK ON YOU!!!!!
YOU NEED TO BE ALONE AND DISCOVER YOURSELF!
AGAIN THIS IS UNACCEPTABLE!!!
Sorry for the caps but I’m a man and hitting a woman is not in my understading for building a healthy relationship…..
I will pray for you Believe..Xx
taha said on 16 Jul 2008 at 8:18 pm # Quote
hay don’t keep it hard, instead of being so nice with girls, be to some extent funny and erotic. i have done this.if you be to polite to them and treat them to gentle and even buy some gifts,they consider you as a one of those persons ho wants to give them gifts not for herself ,but for their need to her
Princess Starbucks said on 18 Jul 2008 at 11:22 pm # Quote
Hitting is not cool. Why she keeps coming around daily with fear you are going to hit her again, i do not know! Anger is something you do not want to bring into a relationship. You really need to work on that first… Love hurts but you have to be able to handle the pain that comes with it as well, because this isnt going to be the only time you get hurt or feel pain. Good Luck!
Believe..Xx said on 21 Jul 2008 at 1:38 am # Quote
I’m a girl..
I would have mentioned it before, but i forgot.. Sorry..
firecracker said on 29 Jul 2008 at 4:15 am # Quote
no matter what you do hitting is not COOL. but look you need some help maybe she does have feelings for you but look
maybe shes tired of being beaten youd have a better shot if you treated her with respect kindness goes a long way