Interracial Lesbian Relationships
Posted by anonymous in Confused on Aug 22nd, 2009 | 8 commentsI am a black female interested in white females. But whenever I do a search for interracial lesbian(s) relationships on the internet (forums or editorials or even pictures) why does 99% of the search results found reference interracial lesbian porn? Don’t get me wrong, lesbian sex is great, but it’s not the only thing black women are interested in. At least not this one. And no offense to the white women (I love them and are so very attracted to them), but why is it the white women that are interested in black women are white ghetto women. I don’t mean hood rats or scummy white women. I mean the kind of white women that don’t care about furthering their education. The kind of white woman that has a job rather than a career. The kind of white women that use “black” slang ALL OF THE TIME. Just because I’m black, it doesn’t mean you should feel the need to act anyway other than yourself. I love intelligent white women. Professional white women. Athletic white women. Academic white women. White women that can spell correctly. White women that can support themselves. I can support myself, you should be able to as well. I don’t like white women that the minute they hook up with a black woman, they want to immediately go down on them. What does that say about you? To me, that says that you don’t care enough about your health or yourself to get to truly know someone past the physical sense. You need to work yourself up to the sex. Then the sex will be amazing. I sure won’t put my mouth on someone that I just met. I don’t want to be with a white woman just to say that I’ve been with one (I’ve actually been with a few). But it seems like alot of white women want to be with black women just to say that they have. There are alot of women from other races that do the same thing. But I’ve personally noticed it with white women.
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Perhaps it is the location in which you are finding these women? As a lesbian, I know that the first rule of actual dating – that is, if you aren’t just looking for sex- is not to look at clubs or bars. We are out there.. keep looking!
where are you! i’m a career oriented, grammar-nazi, white lesbian into black chicks!!!
I agree with Dawn totally. I would recommend looking in different places. Look in places that a literary or career minded woman would frequent. As for your reactions to those who expect too much too soon. I think its rather common in relationships- period. We are becoming an instant gratification society, and that is a great example of the results of that. FYI- Intelligent, career-minded, and non-ghetto White lesbians do exist, I’m one of them! ;)
I’m into career-minded, goal-oriented, kind-hearted, intelligent people. I’m pretty much open to a relationship with anyone that fits this description, be they black, white, asian, hispanic, whatever. Trouble is finding them, and then when you do, making sure they aren’t mental disordered as well.
I know I might be a little young for replying, but I feel my intelligence is right for this topic. I understand what you’re trying to say, and I think it has left me more open-minded about who I date. I’m straight, currently, and a 19 year old white female trying to get a grip on my life. You really proved to me there can be some intelligence in the world. Interracial or not, I feel that the decision you make will be the best one due to intelligence, and I respect that deeply.
I am black and I am attracted to one Caucasian female in particular
I am a professional white female & I have fallen for a black woman. I love her for her, and it has nothing to do with the fact that she is black or a woman. We have a lot in common and relate to each other emotionally & have a great time together.
okay, i’ve been in a relationship with an african american young lady for 2 years. Our story is QUITE out of the ordinary; we met on a 3D online game, and she had been “posing” as a guy on the game because of a dare her brother had given her.their only rule was to not fall in love;
so as a result, i ended up falling in love with this “guy” after a month or so on the phone and stuff, she kinda has a deep voice, so i didn really pay much attention to it, cause some 16 year old guys are a lil off, lol..anyway, she kept up this charade until i kept insisting on more pix, and knowing more about her which was about 9, 10 months into our relationship; well i had gotten a add request on Facebook, and “he” had said it was his cousin (when in reality it was actually her); i noticed that his “cousin” had the same bday as “him” and the same car pix and stuff, so i asked him about it and naturally he got really upset that i was questioning his identity..
Anyway, when it came to our 1 year anniversary she had finally admitted to me that she was a girl, and told me the whole story; but she was scared that when she had told me i would leave her (even though i had already told her i was bisexual); and now we are very happy and i plan to go see her in Cali (i live in kansas) very soon, when i can get enough money.
SOOO HERE IS MY POINT. Love should always be blind. and mine and her story definitely proves that. Despite the fact that she is colored, and i am white has nothing to do with an attraction (even tho she is beautiful in my eyes) or some fantasy, i love her for who she is…our relationship was totally blind for the first years we were together. our 2 year anni. is on Sept. 15, 2011 <3 she is the first woman i've fallen in love with; and as am i. we do have our problems, being 19 and still learning. but our fights against society and my FAMILY make us stronger.
I just hope you guys learn that color,sex,age, or location should stand in the way of appreciating someone for who they are, not what they accomplish in their life.
Thanks guys! this was a long one!