in love with a collegue

Posted by in Confused on Jul 8th, 2008 | 2 comments

Im driving myself crazy thinking about a collegue.. He started the company about 6 mths ago and we got on from the start. The last few months we have been closer and by that i mean he emails and rings me constantly, compliments me and i often get eye contact with him. He is 10 years older than me, but that doesnt bother me. Anyway my problem is that, that is as far as it goes.. Every end of the week we go our seperate ways till its monday again when all the emailing and stuff starts again! I have fallen for him big time and think about him constantly, but dont know how he feels? Does he just see me as a mate? Some of the things he does are definitely flirty? But why hasnt he asked me out? Im shy and dont think i could handle the rejection if i asked him and he said no? I know he is single as he told my friene he is single and looking for a girl friend! Help! X

2 Responses to “ “in love with a collegue”

  1. dooood says:
    August 31, 2008 at 5:59 pm

    ask him out. he could be just as shy as you.. he may worry that you think the age thing is too big, or he may worry himself.
    ask him out…
    it would be a shame to see too people perfect for each other, miss each other because they didn’t move to break the ice.

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  2. Sherika says:
    September 24, 2008 at 9:42 am

    Listen. A man will ALWAYS be a man! So if he really liked u he wud’ve asked u out. Even tho the possiblity is that he may be freaked out by the age difference…but he wud’ve ATLEAST ask u to go out for coffee or a walk r sumthing..especially in those emails…
    Keep ur guard up…dont get too attached..

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