I think I might be a lesbian, but I’m scared to tell anyone. One, because it’ll break my boyfriend’s heart, two, my dad will probably disown me. Three, all of my friends will say “I told you so.” But mainly because my mom would be so disappointed in me…if she were still alive.
Coming out can be more difficult for people who do not have accepting families or friends. It is important to be who you are, though.
Is there anyone who would support you that you can talk to?
It can seem daunting, but just know that know that you are not alone! There are lots of people in your same situation.
Only you know what is best for you, but seeking support won’t hurt.
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Truth: To many parents love what their idea of their child is and not really their child. I love my TG-pan kid more than anything I don’t care if he is gay, straight, male, female, good, bad, it is all my kid and as long as he is happy I love him and have his back 100%. You are what you are no matter what that is, just be true to it because living a lie the the biggest hell on earth.
I like your way of thinking “Truth Hurts” i agree with you..
My advice 2 you “Im so scared”.. try and imagine 2 years in the future you havent said anything 2 anybody..can you see yourself happy and free or do you feel the same way you feel right now..if you think you will be happy and free then dont say anything but if you feel like right now then get yourself together and let it out!!
I agree with the Truth hurts. These are all other people’s problems- ok, i know your boyfriend will be hurt but in the long run lying to yourself will hurt you more when you look back and realise you can’t remember who you were before the charade and you can’t get her back. good luck xx