RSSIm I going to do the biggest mistake?
I am very conservative person. I fall in love at the age of 22. Now I am 24+ doing MBA. Out relationship is about for 2 years. She is the one and only love in my life. I love her more than anything and I also love my family very much. But I cannot choose one. My family is not accepting me to marry her for many reasons which and I cannot blame them for that as they are doing what they should do-I know! I have protested them for more than a years but I failed to make them accept her. Now why I am confused to decide whether to keep relation with her or not are: She is very dominative, less carrying and does anything she wish when she is angry. She has little respect to my family which I cannot stand. She is extrovert in nature. And many more of her nature I do not like. Knowing these things she insists of doing all the things. If I try to control her, she goes more out of control. I am still love her but I am now confused “Can I be happy with her? Should I take the risk of loosing my family for her? If I break up with her now, will I regreat at future for loosing my love? What would happen to me if I make a choice?”
I am confused! I am too young about life. Please people who knows life better, advise me!!!!!!!!!!
MyWorkDefinesMe on March 5th 2008 in Confused
mallii said on 06 Mar 2008 at 3:04 pm # Quote
You’ve answered your own question. It sounds to me that she’s controlling you. Love is mutual respect no matter how angry we are. Do yourself a favour, listen to your parents they obviously know better and at the age of 22 there’s still time to find your TRUE love!
well wisher said on 08 Mar 2008 at 5:39 am # Quote
dude…just let the time pass by…it will decide evrythin…ur just 24, theres still a lot of time…in da near future u will be left with only one of the either options…take care bro
nana93 said on 10 Mar 2008 at 1:44 am # Quote
well..if u really don’t like her attitude then i think u should just let her go. remember that love is sweet, if not sweet then it is not love. u will find the right person one day.
RSC said on 05 Jul 2008 at 1:13 am # Quote
What is there to be confused about ? LOVE IS PATIENT, LOVE IS KIND, LOVE ISN’T SELFISH. Love must be given and taken from both sides in order to work. The woman you’re telling us about is still a long way from it, apparently, so… START RUNNING AND DON’T EVER LOOK BACK !!!