I think im in love

Posted by in Confused on Jul 8th, 2008 | 4 comments

I think im in love with my best friend who is a girl ,im confused because im straight and have a boyfriend and she has a boyfriend , but for some reason i think about her all the time i have this huge sexual desire for her , sometimes im at her apartment and she comes out of the shower and sits next to me in her towel and all i want to do is …..you know. anyway her boyfriend is a total jerk who cheats on her and he moved away to another state , so now she spends all her time with me , i have been trying to see her less so this feeling can go away , but its hard , she calls me all the time and spends soooo much time with me i dont know what to do , i should not love her but at the same time i want to cause she is soo amazing im sooooo confused.

4 Responses to “ “I think im in love”

  1. Strider says:
    July 8, 2008 at 7:42 am

    Are you really best friends? If you are you should be able to ask her fairly directly without leaving yourself too vulnerable because she is your best friend. I bet if you explained it to her like you just did to us she would either say she is not interested in a relationship like that and remian friends or she will be interested too.

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  2. LEMB says:
    July 9, 2008 at 4:41 am

    Well, i have been in the same situation as you!.. And i told my best friend, and she felt the same was as me, and was also scared. She made me so happy!..

    I would tell her, if she really is your best friend, she will accept it and be okay with it, and maybe she may like you back.. If not, you will get over her in time, yeah it will be hard if you spend so much time together, but just apritiate what you have with her at the moment..

    Peace out..

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  3. firecracker says:
    July 29, 2008 at 4:20 am

    tell her how you feel duh i mean if you guys are getting that close dont leave your self hanging chances are she will be happy to have an excuse to get out of that awful relationship shes in

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  4. cookie says:
    June 27, 2010 at 11:45 am

    well i feel if you really love her then tell her i doubt that she will be mad at you..if she was your real best friend she would accept it and if she doesnt feel that way she still would be your best friend…if you were my best friend and you told me i wouldnt be mad at you!!!

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