RSSi think im gay
i have a boyfriend but i had sex with a girl on my bithday. We were at a party and i was drunk and she took me upstairs and kissed me and we had sex. i dont know if im gay but i kind of liked it.
Salena on November 15th 2008 in Confused
Anonymous said on 19 Nov 2008 at 7:23 am # Quote
What exactly constitutes sex?
Lesbian said on 21 Nov 2008 at 11:56 am # Quote
Many people ‘experiment.’ Just because you were intimate with a girl, does not make you a lesbian. I do however believe you should tell your boyfriend. Finding who you are can take some time but follow your heart :).
I’ve been there, it will all work out how it is supposed to :).
Lezzie said on 03 Dec 2008 at 6:39 am # Quote
I agree with Lesbian. We all experimented at first. And this is where you begin to decide if you DO see yourself in a life long relationship with a woman, and having kids with this woman. If not, then you are not gay, just probably confused.
But it will work out I promise. It took me a long time to come to terms with it!
Angel said on 18 Dec 2008 at 2:40 pm # Quote
Bisexuality is an option. you don’t have to be a lesbian or straight. Many people chose to be attracted to both genders. So if you decide your not into girls later then fine. At least you liked the sex. If you are again, whatever. You can make a decision about sexuality later on. No need to rush anything or be worried.
Jenny said on 20 Dec 2008 at 8:23 pm # Quote
All i know is don’t start crying if people later in life cheat on you. My friend that i went to high school with use to cheat on every boyfriend she had with guys and gals. Now we’re both in our 30s and she gets cheated on with every serious mate she gets involved with and wonders why she gets cheated on all the time. Maybe karma does exist, LOL
Why even have a boyfriend or girlfriend, obviously you want to be with other people. Please don’t hurt others :)
Lorena said on 20 Dec 2008 at 8:36 pm # Quote
What happened if many many years ago when we barely had any technology if every human on earth liked only the same gender? I guess you, me, and other bloggers would never exist in present day. Kinda scary. I guess different genders were created for a reason. Why can’t the same gender create an offspring? Maybe it wasn’t meant to be. I used to love woman, but i want to have kids and i want them to have a father and mother of different genders, the way it was obviously meant to be. It would be selfish of me to not pass on my good genes.
But later i realized i was only in love with having sex with other woman. I never really had feelings for them. I was only turned on to woman because i had a sexual experience with one but never felt love the same why i feel love for a man.