RSSI think I’m bisexual… don’t tell my boyfriend
I love my boyfriend to bits and could never imagine my life without him. We have a great sex life. However I frequently fantazise about women. I read lesbian erotica and it really turns me on.
There. I said it.
And on top of that I’m a Christian and I have lots of very Evangelical friends. If they knew how I sometimes feel about women…
Anon on November 15th 2007 in Confused
OMG! said on 15 Nov 2007 at 6:39 am # Quote
Bisexuality is more common among females than males for whatever reason.
Oh, Please said on 15 Nov 2007 at 11:48 am # Quote
If you love your b/f so much why are you looking around or fantacizing about others? Make up your mind!
anon607130 said on 16 Nov 2007 at 1:59 am # Quote
this is more common than you realize. just pray about it, but don’t feel guilty.
who cares -.- said on 16 Nov 2007 at 4:43 am # Quote
dam it… just say it…
if you boyfriend realy loves you he will understand (and maybe he will even like it lmao) and if you friends are realy you friends they whont care -.-’
Anon said on 19 Nov 2007 at 9:08 am # Quote
I did. Tell him I mean. Yesterday. Cried my eyes out while telling him.
He said he forgave me and that he understood - that it is more common that I realise.
I still don’t want to, and I’m gonna try my hardest not to.
I’m so lucky that he is so understanding. He’s truly wonderful. I love him :-)
Pervert said on 16 Jan 2008 at 3:29 am # Quote
What if he wants to do a threesome? Then what?
HORNY FOR BALD PUSSY said on 25 Feb 2008 at 3:03 am # Quote
hi ive been going through the same thing i like having both i cant tell anyone cause it will be a problem where i live its not so easy meeting a good serious honest and healthy girl most of them arent that good looking lies abt everything and dont care abt giving you any diseases me i like really sexy well figured women i have to live with that until whenever so you are not alone.
hey said on 04 Apr 2008 at 4:58 am # Quote
As a girl in a similar predicament. I love my bf beyond belief and I’m happiest when i’m with him , but sometimes i fantasize about what sex what a woman would be like) and after talking with several of my female friends (haha while high. pple admit a lot of things when under some influence) and even talking to a therapist, I’ve learned that for some reason this is really common among women. The therapist explained that we’re just more nurturing and brought up to be very affectionate with everyone including our female friends, and naturally being affectionate leads to developed feelings, etc… so I’m not saying that we’re socialized this way, but it does seem more natural. Idk.
Don’t stress about it. I assure you, you’re not alone.
hey said on 04 Apr 2008 at 5:05 am # Quote
and i wanted to add that my friends and i are like all fashionistas who recently interned at like Liz Claiborne, Vogue, wall street, etc… I said that to say that when people think of someone who likes women too they go straight to the stereotypical montana butch woman. (republicans beware. nobody is really completely normal) when really most chicks are just a lil bi curious. also is it bad that i don’t have a problem admitting that to myself, but if my bf told me the same thing i’d question his manhood. its a serious double standard that we’ve been socialized to accept. seriously i dont know many girls that find male gay porn arousing, but shit loads of guys find the opposite a turn on. interesting…
Jim said on 07 Apr 2008 at 10:31 pm # Quote
How strange, Im a man who has had previous experience with men, I have never fancied a man but the though of being with one orally really turned me on. I thought I had got it out of my system once I met my wife, we are happily married with a young family and I have recently started having these fantasies again. She has made it clear she is not bi-sexual and im sure she wouldnt aprieciate me telling her my true feelings, so unfortunatly its somehting that hass to remain a fantasy again. Shame, I would love her to enjoy that side of my sexuality.
me said on 08 Apr 2008 at 6:20 am # Quote
im a christian too. my dads a pastor.. n basically all my friends r christians. n im bi.. i cant tell my family, maybe i wont ever be able to.. but i have frieds online that i can talk to. ive tried to ignore it but ive realised that it’s a part of me n it always will be.