RSSI Really Like You
You’re my best friend, and I’ve known you for almost 10 years now.
I hadn’t realised until a few months ago that I felt more strongly about you, and the more I saw you the worse it got.
Then the other night we were both so drunk and you ended up in my bed, you held me so close, wrapped you arms around me and entwined your fingers with mine.
I lay in bed last night and realised how empty it felt, and how much I wanted you there with me.
Do you like me too? Or was it just the drink?
I guess I’ll never know, because I’m too scared to ask.
Anonymous on March 21st 2008 in Confused
dont do it said on 23 Mar 2008 at 5:01 am # Quote
dont you ever thing of changing the way you feel towards your friend, even if you both turned up having the same feelings, dont go further, you will lose your friend forever and the thing between you will never go on. at the end of the day you will be the loser, you lost your friend for good and a deeply hurt and a broken heart.
try convincing your self that its just a phase and it will pass soon. never tell your friend about your feelings or he will end up thinking of it, and as i told you earlier it will NEVER have a happy ending.
hey said on 24 Mar 2008 at 5:09 pm # Quote
Don’t listen to that person above, you have to take chances, you have live your life thinking and thinking and wondering about her feelings towards you and before you know is he or she will be married far far away and you will be stuck in the past wondering.
Even if things don’t go well like “don’t do it” says, you will have the peace of mind that you ACTUALLY KNOW how he she feels.
I went through the same situation you did, i mean everything , the drinking waking up next to you beloved best friend, but i had to get the courage to ask if it was gonna be this way forever, the person said no. But my god I thank him everyday i asked, because I would still be sitting here like a loser thinking about it. Knowing how the person felt about the situation changed my life. It allowed me to MOVE ON. We are still friends. And I have met someone amazing because I was no longer waiting around for my best friend to show signs of feelings towards me.
GOOD LUCK
tell them said on 31 Mar 2008 at 8:23 am # Quote
tell them how you feel if they dont like you back it may make your friendship alittle awkward at first but eventually youll build up the same relationship. i hope everything goes okay for you and goodluck <3
J said on 09 Apr 2008 at 1:03 am # Quote
This is almost exactly what happened with me, except I was the girl who got drunk and ended up with my arms around him. He was hopelessly in love with me and I had only ever wanted to be best friends. I was simply not attracted to him. But those drunken nights became more frequent, and soon I would find myself with my arms around him while both of us were completely sober. Three years later and we are married.
I can tell you one thing: alcohol does not make most people do things they didn’t already want to do; it just makes them less likely to hold back. I’ll bet she wanted to see how it felt in your arms and if she liked it there, and at worst she found out she didn’t.