I LOVE HER
Posted by Anonymous in Confused on Dec 24th, 2009 | 4 commentsI am a girl, i like a girl who has a girlfriend. No one knows i like her, because no one knows i like girls. This is ripping me apart inside because i don’t know if i like guys two so i can’t tell anyone. but i don’t know because i have never kissed either sex. I am so confused but all i know is that I LOVE HER. i have never had a proper conversation with her, she is in one of my classes and sits on the other side of the room so have never had the opportunity, but i have pretty much turned into a stalker. I am so in love, all i want to do is see her all the time.
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You don’t have to tell anyone about it, but I think it is better when you are not alone with problems like that. I understand that you don’t want to talk about it because you are unsure about your sexuality. But! You don’t have to label yourself! Focuse on the love you feel now. I think you should talk to her and get to know her a little better. And after that, if you love her that much, maybe confess her. If you don’t want to confess, you should try to forget her.
oh and beeing gay is not abot kiss or sex. some people know that they are gay without kissing someone or having sex. Give yourself time about this.
good luck!
you don’t love her.
How can you when you don’t really know her?
you’re in love with the idea of her and that is not real.
if you don’t know if you like guys and you have neder kissed either a guy or girl, you have a lot to learn yet.
give yourself a little slack but ease up on the infatuation.
As a teenager, I was very confused about myself too.
I thought I might be gay or bi but I dated and found I was quite straight.
You will discover who you really are.
be comfortable with that when you figure it out.
I think your just attracted to her. If you’ve been with a guy you would like them. I haven’t gone to far with guys but i have talked with them but havent talked to one in awhile and i kno i still like guys. goodluck, you can keep it to yourself until you know for sure your feelings are true.
I was in the exact same situation as you – I fell in love with someone in my class. I barely ever talked to her, she sat the opposite side of the room to me – apart from one day when we had a 5 minute conversation which was probably (sadly) one of the best days of my life. College was nearly 4 years ago now and I miss her so much and still think about her all the time. If you’re in love you just know it and if you’re gay/bi/straight, you don’t have to kiss anyone to know it. It’s really hard trying to come to terms with your sexuality if it goes against what everyone thinks is ‘normal’. I would say just be who you want to be but that would also make me a hypocrit as I’m in my 20′s and have not come out to anyone – I look straight (if that’s possible), act straight and come from a very religious family. It would ruin my life to come out but I hope you have more strength than me.