i know a secret.
Posted by anonymous in Confused on Jun 3rd, 2009 | 9 commentsOne of my very closest friends also happens to be my ex-boyfriend. He’s in a relationship with a girl he loves a lot, even though he cheats on her.. with me.
But that isn\t my secret.
My secret is that I found his online dating profile. Looking for men to perform oral sex on and receive anal sex from. I will never tell anyone, and never tell him because it would humiliate him.
He has started being more open about these things with me, saying how he likes the way penises look, and commenting on how he would like a 3some with another guy, but has never come so far as to say he is actively pursuing it. I make a point of being very understanding and open when he tells me about stuff like this, I want him to talk to be about it. I want to know he just has the profile, or if anything has come of it.
I have absolutely nothing wrong with homosexuality or bisexuality, and have some close friends who are openly gay. But finding this out about him, knowing this, makes me sick. It makes me worry so much about him. He is so confused, about more than just his relationship. I want him to tell me but I know why he can’t. I wish I could talk to someone about this, but I know I can’t…
My secret is that I know his secret, but I can’t tell him and won’t tell anyone else and it’s eating away at me.
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I know exactly what you’re going through, I was married to a man whom I loved very much. I was really young so when I found out about his online dating profile interestd in men I went straight to him. I had proof in my hand & he denied it to my face. I had a sheet of paper he had wrote all these profile numbers on & wrote like notes about the guy beside it. I knew he was pursuing this without talking me to first. I was hurt at first but later realized we’re all different with different interest & wants. I can’t judge him, my life hadn’t been perfect up until that point I had slept with a girl what was the difference. Guys are much more closed book than us woman, they don’t want to share secerts like that. Just give him time & the next time you guys talk about a 3some maybe you should say yes? Maybe you’ll be the one he opens up to. If it freaks you out just think about where he’s coming from, he has this huge thing he can’t talk about with anyone, imagen how hard that would be if that were you. He probably just needs surpport & understanding. Take care of him because one day you may need himt o take care of you. Good luck!
i think.. living such kind of life is a waste..ur friend im sorry to say, is pervert, life is more than just sex. ignore it, and u try to be a better person by avoiding this poisonous and complicated relationship..u will be happy at the end, when their’s life will be hell.
He does not love this girl at all if he will not only cheat on her with another women, but men as well. He needs to seperate from her until he can get his head on straight, and really prove he loves her. I feel sorry for this girl.
interesting secret….lol…ur bf is almost like me but the difference is that i don’t practice those things but i sometimes chat a lot with guys online… anyway Goodluck
Humm let see hes a guy and he wants to suck a penis……well I was told one time that if it looks like a duck and quacks like a duck…………..
All i can say is that i wish his girl knew that he was sleeping with men. Make sure u wear a condom with him at all times. U never know what u could catch.
I don’t think you actually realise that he doesn’t love you or his current girlfriend if he goes on those things.
That’s just plain sick.
Now every one knows and maybe you should tell his girl friend so the both of you don’t catch AIDS.
Thanks alot just tell everyone about you seeing my profile online,And why were you on that site?
I wish you could have atleast called me on your stupid little cell phone and asked me before you tell everyone here about it.
Is it that big of deal anyway?
Maybe you need to tell me in person about your issue with me.
I’m not really mad at you but I think we need to hook up and just talk about this alone,you never know ,you may find out that you have been missing something in your life all this time and only I can fulfill your needs and remain good friends.