help me
Posted by john in Confused on Jul 12th, 2010 | 5 commentsi’m a 24 years old guy and my wife she’s 27,i know my wife for 3 weeks before we got married and she had a 4 years daughter everything was perfect until 1 month we got married i found out that she is cheating on me with her co-worker that she said is her crush before she meet me,i really love her and she really sorry and ask for a second chance,what should i do???i’m really hurt and confused right now??
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If u married after only weeks surely u knew she had a past 3 weeks is not long to make a promise for a future, Its obvious she had a past if, she has a daughter. Nothing is perfect, if it was you wouldn’t ask the question. Please grow up and don’t ask silly questions that u should know the answer to. U married her now make her want and need u. Move on and forget her past, make a future if that’s what you want. If you don’t you are wasting time.
3 weeks is not enough to know someone, even a lifetime in some ways… she cheated, she had her past and you accepted it and marry her.. that’s you choice, if you think that you can still go on with her and can still trust her and love her like before then you should give both of you a chance, if not.. give yourself a chance to find what really is for you. goodluck.
Here’s a newsflash, once a cheater, always a cheater?
Don’t be surprised. I’m sorry. You deserve better.
i disagree partially with Realistic. once a cheater always a cheater can be true for some people. they apologize but secretly they think that next time they won’t do the stupid thing that got them caught. i know this because i have cheated before. however i personally know one person who was able to stop and he is happier because that.
as for deserving better, bro i think you may have gotten what you should’ve expected. 3 weeks, i mean c’mon man.
what should you do? get to know her!
You should have given it more time to get to know her before you got married. Despite the fact that she is a cheater(n yes, once a cheater, always a cheater), she agreed to marry while involved with another man. So she different from someone who cheated after a long dreadful boring marriage. She did it right from the jump. So that makes her a LIAR capable of anything. There’s NO limits to what she will lie about. You’ve got to see that. I wont beat u up too bad, because love is blind, n there’s no time limit on love. Regardless of why u married(insecure or wut, cuz god knows everyone has different reasons), u honored ur vows and entered your marriage with the intentions. She’s evil, and u should never trust her again. Stay far away. You will only beat urself in the future for not leavin sooner n trusting ur instincts.