Going Crazy
Posted by Anonymous in Confused on Jan 15th, 2011 | 1 commentIn a two week time span, my mother got deathly sick and i walked in on my wife with another man. Two years later after relationships on both sides, I still love her. She knows it, We hook up occasionally and spend holidays as a family. It’s hard now to have no family, sharing my daughter, losing my house etc., — she had a bf, I just broke up with mine because i’m still in love with my wife. We’re still not divorced due to the fact I don’t need a judge working out a parenting plan for us. I really am a good guy, successful too — don’t know the right move here — kills me still to hear she’s been out with another guy who evidently is jealous of me. I’m normally very private but going nuts here.
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I am so sorry about your mom and about what your wife did to you. I realize you are hurting. Even if you were to reconcile with your wife, you will always think about how she betrayed you and wonder if you can ever trust her again. Please consider going to a support group for people who are separated and divorced. It will help you so much and they understand what you’re going through. You deserve to have someone you can trust. Someone who will be your rock through the hard times and be loyal to you. It speaks volumes to what kind of person your wife is that she would do that to you, especially during a very difficult time in your life (when you are trying to help an ailing parent). Maybe you can find a good family law attorney that can help you come up with a fair child custody arrangement. Once you have moved past the pain, you will see that you deserve better and then find someone you can make a good life with. Don’t settle. Life is too short. You’re too good for your wife.