Don’t know what to think
Posted by Anonymous in Confused on Jun 20th, 2011 | 5 commentsMy girlfriend goes back and forth on whether she loves me or not. When she’s depressed she says she doesn’t think she loves me and she doesn’t treat me well. I know that I shouldn’t be with someone who treats me the way she does but I can’t bring myself to leave. I always thought that I would be able to end a relationship if anyone ever hit me but I guess I was wrong.
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What would you do if you were on a sinking boat? You would take your courage and spend your energy trying to get out of that situation… Do yourself a favor and get on the raft! Let her go!
You do not want to be with someone that isn’t crazy about you.
She HITS you & yet you stay? Where is your dignity and self-respect? Grow a pair of balls and get the hell away from any sick bitch that hits you. holy jesus christ.
no offense, but your girlfriend might be leading you on if she’s so on and off. she just doesn’t want to be the one to leave you because she doesn’t want to be the bad guy. in other words, you’re in a one-sided love. you deserve to be with someone better and someone who is crazy about you.
Are you respectful to yourself?
It’s hard to see the forest from the trees. Anybody would think that a mentally and physically abusive partner would be a deal-breaker in a relationship. But when you’re in it, it’s never so clear.
My man was mentally abusive, and chipped away at my feelings of self worth. It was insidious and similar to a slow death by starvation. I could see what was happening, but the good times were so amazing that i didn’t want to give it all away. Then came the physical abuse. And as much as my heart was screaming at me to explain it all away – make it my fault please – i knew that i couldn’t look at myself in the mirror if i accepted that treatment. It’s one thing for someone to disrespect you, but it’s a whole other ballgame to disrespect yourself enough to accept blatant abuse.
Be strong, and time will make it better. I promise.