Do I Have to Pick?
Posted by Anonymous in Confused on Mar 2nd, 2011 | 4 commentsI’ve been dating 2 men for about a year.
One I’m in love with despite the fact that he’s an alcoholic & lives in his moms basement.
The other I really like (not love) but he is in a position to help me further my career.
They both know about the other but now they are starting to push for commitment… I don’t want commitment… I don’t want a serious relationship.
I also really don’t want to stop seeing either one of them.
If I do continue seeing both of them I know it will all blow up in my face & I will lose both of them & my job.
Why can’t they just be happy how it was?
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An alcoholic, seriously? And you have trouble choosing? You need to picture these relationships as taking place in different times and different places in your life. The reason you probably can’t choose is because these relationships together are creating one perfect relationship.
So picture each man without the other around picking up the slack. And if the answer is neither that’s okay too.
Just remember that alcoholics don’t change until they what to, usually when they hit rock bottom. And it’s not fair to raise kids in that kind of environment.
Why can’t they be happy? Isn’t it obvious? lol
I’d hate the idea of dating a girl who is also dating someone else. They were probably okay with it at first because 1. they weren’t that attached to you but now they are and 2. they probably thought they were going to be “The One” after a while and you’d pick him.
If you love the alcoholic then you wouldnt be sleeping with the other guy. Go for the other guy you have no future with the alcoholic that lives with his mummy.
you need to choose one or the other and stop playin games with them and what do you mean why cant they be ok with it i dont know how you role relationship wise but maybe they are like everyone else and want a real relationship where its just you two u cant have it all.