RSSConfused help!
My Ex has been telling me ever since that she loves me But she never calls and ask about me. When i do shes so excited and shes never more happy.we have been together for 1 year and about 7 months..We broke up because i traveled but i did come back 9 months later. And she still says I love u ..and she says i know i never asked about you but i was hurt! ( meaning shes hurt bcoz she never asked about me. What i think she means she wants me to come to her always. What can i do ?! do i call her or forget her?! the last time we’ve spoken is 4 months ago. Help please
anonymous on June 15th 2008 in Confused
REALISTIC said on 16 Jun 2008 at 8:28 am # Quote
hi heres a question ask yourself if you still have feelings for her cause obviously you do cause you wouldnt be putting yourself through all this for a girl she tells you nothing you sit wodering have you tried asking her how she really feels even though she says see loves you mmmmm yet she doesnt show it my best i can tell you is do something dont drag it on and on if it feels like its going no where end it nicely and be friends if it feels like nothing is there anymore end it before it could get worse but hey you have to decide on ur own what has to be done good luck
Princess Starbucks said on 16 Jun 2008 at 11:57 pm # Quote
It’s been 4 months since you saw each other, she has made no effort to come see, can easily tell you what you want to hear over the phone as to not deal with the heartache of telling you its over. Hmmmmmmmm, ITS OVER! She may still love you but more then likely is not in love with you any longer. When two people have that much time away from one another it is easy to get use to the other not being around and move on. In her case I am sure that is what happened. Sucks for you but I think you need to move on as well and just remain friends with her if that is possible… Good Luck!
Reality said on 18 Jun 2008 at 3:31 am # Quote
Get over her!!! If she hasnt contacted you in four months then that should tell you something. I know it must be hard…but you’ll be okay with time. If time didnt heal wounds then no one would be alive. Take it easy being friends with your ex is only going to confuse things even more.
Someone said on 23 Jun 2008 at 8:59 am # Quote
clearly she doesnt care.. she might tell you that she loves you but does she mean it? if she didnt try to contact you in any way and thinks that its your job to do it then shes not worth it. i say get over her, find someone new just move on with your life.. she was someone once dont let her be someone now.