i moved from manhattan to cleveland.no family here. i move for a guy who isnt even here.he’s in iraq. im not even sure i want to be in this relationship.i’m torn between joining the peace corp and staying here with him.he wants a family in the future,i dont. i dont think we even have much in common.the sex is getting better,but it isn’t enough.im starting to think im wasting my life here.
So if you don’t want to be there and don’t want a family then why are you there? Really evaluate what you want, what your feelings are and if they are still the same then be honest with your friend but please do it kindly and without malace as he is serving our country. Then go find a life for yourself.
you left manhattan to go to cleveland? that in itsself is sad. IMO, you can’t live for other people, do what you want to do for you and join the peace corps. it’ll be an amazing experience and you’ll come out a much better person. don’t settle. i’ve been there and done that and done that. now, i’m in my mid-40s, divorced and feel like i’m just starting my life. having kids and a family is not all it’s cracked up to be, esp. if you’re with someone you’re not 100% compatable and in love with, it’s just lonely. eventually the time will come for you. enjoy your life now & live it for YOU. you’ll be fine, good luck