RSSCold paranoid wife - help
I’m so paranoid of people looking down on me, and if I sense that they’re thinking that they are better than me I just hate them and try to avoid them.
My husband isn’t one of these people, he’s so honest and emotional. The way he can describe his love and care for me is overwhelming, I simple repel when he’s emotionally intimate with me. I think it hurt him a lot, and I feel bad about it, but sometimes it’s easier to not care at all. I haven’t been saying any romantic words to him for ages because it all feels incredibly uncomfortable and fake. I know I should also show him that I need him but I can’t stand that either. I don’t think I can be emotionally demonstrative and intimate with any man, not just my husband. I think I don’t trust men. Please help.
tooyoung on August 28th 2008 in Confused
pstar said on 31 Aug 2008 at 11:36 pm # Quote
if you love your husband, tell him plainly once in a while. how hard is it to tell the truth? he’ll understand that it was hard for you to say it outloud and appreciates it. you feel that ppl are looking down on you because you yourself is probably looking down on yourself. why care how others look at you? it’s more important to care how you look at yourself. Be confident of yourself and tell your husband you love him :)
anonymous said on 10 Oct 2008 at 1:37 am # Quote
Well…even i havent shared romantic talks or word s wid ma boyfriend for ages…i jus keep ignoring while he is very expressive of his emotions n thoughts…n i know how badly it hurts him nw…..bt dats nt basically cuz im in-expressive…its jus becuz i guess ive lost interest in him…n have lost all d passion in our relationship…specially after i started thinking that hes equally physical too n is using me too much to quench his thirst….anywayz, whatever the cause maybe, ive lost almost everything i had for him…n so i dont say anything to him anymore as far as romantic n emotional talks are considered…n try to run away when he starts any such conversation!