Bisexual? Or Cross-dresser?
Posted by Shane in Confused on Apr 1st, 2008 | 4 commentsI’m afraid to tell my mother that I might be bisexual and I cross-dress some of the time. Although I am a girl, I feel like a boy sometimes. Almost everytime. I always love to cross-dress as a guy because I feel comfortable as a guy.
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How old are you? If you are below 21 years old, it’s okay. I like to dress a little boyish some of the times… depending on the situation like I feel rebellious and I want to show everyone how tough I am on the outside. Like wearing a cap or something. I’d seen high school girls who are still unsure what there genders are. But as the years go, they are very feminine. I am 23 now and feel very girly. I love girly clothes. I sometimes love the girly scents/perfumes. I like to buy body wash and stuff… you know… feel, look and act girly. Overall I know I am a girl. I took a reflection why I act this way and it hit me—I want to show everyone I was tough. In terms of bisexual,…. I am not sure if you have infatuation or something. I mean, everyone has someone they admire! I admire them because they have these traits that I don’t have.
Just do whatever you like … You never have to care about what other people say! It is your life and you have to live it in the way you want, not in the way your mother, friends, or strangers want. Good luck!
And tell your mother about this, she has the right to know!
Theres nothing wrong with your feelings. But be aware that bisexuality and crossdressing are mostly seperate issues. One doesnt imply the other. I know as I am a 26 y/o male crossdresser. I am straight and have no desire to have sex with another man. I’ve crossdressed since I was 10 [moms clothes first, then my older sisters, always dressing on the sneak]. I have my own place and my own female wardrobe, so I can dress anytime and anyway I want. High heels are my passion. But I have to be careful in public because as we all know, men dressed like women are scorned, while women dressing like men are considered cool. My family still doesnt know I crossdress, so I can never let them see my shaved legs, for example. When the time is right you’ll know when to tell your mom. For me the right time may never come [if I dont get caught, of course].