Wants to forgive a lost soul

I want to forgive the man that molested and tortured me from age 5-13 over 10 years ago. Im not sure why I just feel compeled to forgive him. I think in a way Im more godly then I thought and this is god telling me too. I just want to give myself to my husband and children whole and healed and not be so scared of every odd looking man I see. I know this will ruffle alot of feathers and piss many people off but I want to do this for myself and for my family most of all.

9 Responses to “ “Wants to forgive a lost soul”

  1. Bubear50 says:

    Good for you!!! I suggest you do this. Write a letter and say all that you want to say. After you’re done burn the letter and as the letter is burning look up at the sky and place the whole thing in “his” hands.

    You will feel whatever burden that you carry lifted from you and you will feel peace and closure for the rest of your life.

    Amen

  2. Also...healing says:

    I am so proud of you for, not only wanting to forgive this person and let it all go, but for finally making your voice heard through writing. There’s something very theraputic in writing things down, especially things that have been deep down in the soul-something that’s affected EVERY aspect of your life. I will pray that with every single step in “growing”, your life becomes so totally the life you’ve always dreamed of. Thank you so much for sharing. Today, you are my teacher. God Bless and Much love!

  3. ME says:

    good for u! u have been able to come to a place in your life where u can forgive and let go. many people will not understand but u need to do what feels right in your heart. once u forgive, u can then begin to heal. good luck!

  4. suchislife says:

    Well I don’t know if this will help, but here: forgiveness is not for them, it’s for you. The horrible thoughts are suffocating, and forgiving them can help relieve that weight. But no matter if you do or don’t forgive them, it won’t matter to them; they were and always will be a bad person. The point is to let yourself feel a bit more free from your pain.

  5. Amethyst says:

    That is really good.
    I personally, if i was ever in your position… would find it hard to forgive someone like that.
    I really look up to you.
    xx.

  6. d says:

    The person that is released from the torment of this injustice is you.

  7. Horatio says:

    Right on! Forgive them and it will allow you to also move on and not carry that burden any further. Pray for guidance and allow God to work in your life. There is enough grace and mercy in this world for everyone! If God can forgive us for all our sins…who are we to not forgive others? 1Love

  8. LuSiD says:

    living well is the greatest revenge

  9. Poppyseed says:

    FORGIVE ! Id cut his privates off and feed them 2 him so he don’t screw up sum1 elses life!!

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