Comments on: It happened twice

By: Maris

Maris — Wed, 31 Aug 2011 00:17:55 +0000

you were young and curious. you have to learn to forgive yourself because you were just experimenting. talk to your sister.

By: Jay

Jay — Wed, 23 Jun 2010 18:43:26 +0000

Let it go honey, it didnt mean anything it was experimentation. Let it go.

By: anon

anon — Sun, 29 Nov 2009 10:37:04 +0000

i know what youre going through. it totally tears you up inside and i know how you wish desperately it had not happened but it’s a misatake we did and have to repent on.

By: Poppyseed

Poppyseed — Tue, 24 Nov 2009 01:39:04 +0000

Holy moly I just couldn’t fancy my sister!

By: yourgoingtobefine

yourgoingtobefine — Wed, 28 Oct 2009 10:56:16 +0000

I did the same thing when I was a kid, with my two female cousins. I hate that it ever happened.
Now when I look back on it, I feel disgusted and pray all the time about it.
I think you are going to be okay though.
You aren’t thinking it was fun or anything and you know it was wrong…
God forgives people that are sorry for doing things…
well, at least thats what I think

By: Anonymous

Anonymous — Tue, 30 Jun 2009 16:38:30 +0000

Why are you feeling guilty?
you were a teenager and it felt good at the time or otherwise you wouldnt have done it.
do you want believe in a god that will punish you for something you are regreted ?

By: xyz

xyz — Sun, 14 Jun 2009 06:25:30 +0000

this may be an old post but I just felt the need to comment…

when I was little I used to play with my parts and even at one point found myself stuck in a closet with my best playmate and was asked by him to touch his private…

this kinda slipped my mind during my child hood growing up and then came back to haunt me when I got older

I used to feel guilty all the time about it till I had a moment of clarity.. its not my fault I was to young to understand but way to curious for my own good I have a feeling most kids are like this when they are young because their parents talk about fairytale like stuff instead of being real with their kids…

at least for me

By: V

Tue, 09 Jun 2009 23:06:13 +0000

Similar things happened to me and some friends each at different intervals, and like those before me have said its just sexual exploration, for a while i beat myself up about whether i was “gay” or not but i’ve since discovered my sexuality (im straight) and finally feel i can move on. What you did was not wrong,

By: Henny

Henny — Tue, 09 Jun 2009 03:39:18 +0000

Isaiah 1:18
Though your sins are like scarlet, they shall be as white as snow; though they are red like crimson, they shall be like wool.
1 John 1:9
On the other hand, if we admit our sins–make a clean breast of them–he won’t let us down; he’ll be true to himself. He’ll forgive our sins and purge us of all wrongdoing.

By: Meghan

Meghan — Mon, 08 Jun 2009 01:48:28 +0000

I would talk to your sister about how you feel. If you feel the need to, tell her you are sorry. She prob. has forgotten it happened, I’m sure she doesn’t blame you, and once you realize that you’ll feel better. And yeah you should prob. talk to a psychologist, most people do not have this much guilt. From my perspective, you did nothing wrong, especially considering what some of the other people on this site have done. ^_^