Be nice forever

When i was a little girl my older brother made a deal with me. He could molest me as long as he was nice to me forever. It didnt last long and i didnt like him for a very long time but now, ten years later, we are friends and i love him to death. How should this have impacted my life? Cause it seems to me that it never did..

5 thoughts on “Be nice forever

  1. this is really common among siblings similar happened with myself and both my sisters it went on for a few years and hasn’t negatively impacted any of us.

  2. Don’t listen to any of these yoyos. This type of thing is more common than you think. Now if you have a healthy outlook on life and are happy then let it go.

    The fact that you and hime share love and friendship shows that you are both pass it.

    Be friends and love each other. Nuff said!

  3. It could have impacted you in different ways. Any relationship troubles? People pleasing issues? Trust issues? If not for nothing it effects you in some way becasue you used the word “molest” as oppose to “experiment” or “touch” or some other less traumatic word, so you felt and still in some way may feel violated. Maybe it ended early enough so that you have healed from it, that is, if you were BOTH very young…

    1. I was 6 and he was 10, but I don’t have any trust issues or anything like that. As for the people pleasing comment; I really don’t care what most people think about me. I’ll do nice favors or just common acts of courtesy for people but I don’t have a feeling of having to do those things. He called it experimenting. I call it molestation because I didn’t know what he was doing and he did.

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