I hate my husband

Posted by Tiffany in Spouse on Jan 15th, 2012 | 0 comments

I hate my husband and his stupid lying ways. I miss my ex every day and think of him constantly. I believe my husband is a complete and total moron. My biggest regret ever was marrying this loser.
We have a son, and I feel so stuck. Everyone we know thinks that he is such a great guy, but he is a pathological liar and a thief. He has stolen large amounts of money, committed Insurence fraud, even stolen money from our son. My husband is a terrible person, and I’m the only one who knows it. I hate my life.

To my husband

Posted by D.E.B in Spouse on Jan 4th, 2012 | 2 comments

I know we always tell each other how much we love each other and will never hurt each other. There are days when you are the most caring, loving man that I have ever known and I cherish those moments like nothing else. I know you love me and I you….but you choose to go out and put your friends ahead of me 90% of the time and make excuses whenever I want to go out. So you can be with your friends and drink and have your fun…I understand you have known them longer than me…but there are days where I resent you and hate you…I never tell you but I choose these days to go out and spend time with friends…
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If you had just made me your priority

Posted by Your Cheating Wife in Spouse on Nov 22nd, 2011 | 7 comments

rather than always putting me second to your family; If you never raised your hand to me or called me those names in moments of anger I would never had cheated on you. And I have cheated on you. And I don’t feel guilty. Even though you may never find out about it, I hope in some small way it makes you fell less secure with me as I’ve been made to feel less secure with you. I like it that you know other men out there find me attractive if it makes you feel a bit scared that one day I just might act on it. I wish I could tell you that I’m only with you because of the kids. If we didn’t have them, I would have walked long ago. How sad that you’ve become a better husband when I just don’t give a shit anymore. I used to love you so much that I put up with your behavior. Now I love someone else. He is poor and and my lifestyle would go down more than one degree, but I would be happier being with him and being poor than with being with you and being comfortable. But I will stay with you because my kids didn’t ask to be born and they are wonderful and smart and talented and I would rather die than make them unhappy or **** up their life.

Annullment or divorce

Posted by Mistaken in Spouse on Sep 12th, 2011 | 3 comments

My husband just walked into the room and told me he loved me. I reciprocated and told him the same. I don’t feel guilty that I was reading about annulments versus divorces and which would be better for me at that very moment.

A mistake

Posted by anon in Spouse on Jul 31st, 2011 | 8 comments

I feel like I’ve made a mistake. That I should have married another person 11 years ago. But I made the best choice I could at the time. I think about the other person every day. It tears me up inside and I feel like I could have had the partner I have always wanted to share my life with. Soulmate, if you will.

Now that person is forever gone and I am stuck with someone who is awkward and with I barely feel a connection with.

Where to begin and where to end…

Posted by LostinLove in Spouse on Jul 30th, 2011 | 6 comments

We fought a lot when we first got married, because you still talk to your ex…my sister. I knew all about your relationship with her because you told me and also the fact that you still can’t forget her. She contacted you again through emails and cell phone behind my back…we fought all the time..I turn to a co-worker..he was nice and knew all the right thing to say..but he was also married..story short..you ended for good with her and suspected something was going on with me. You ask if I’ve ever slept with him? I said no, but I lied..We did it more than once. We broke it off..he moved to a different area at work, but now he’s back to where I am..we’re back to where we started..and guess what? I don’t have any guilty feelings.

Stuck in a loveless, sexless marriage

Posted by jeejee in Spouse on Jul 30th, 2011 | 28 comments

My husband and I have been together for 8 years, married for four and have a 6 year old son. He is a wonderful father and financial supporter to us both, however the relationship between the two of us has died. He shows me no affection whatsoever and we haven’t had sex for 2 years. Ive tried talking to him about it, but he changes the subject or leaves the room. Emotionally, ive already left him, but now i’m struggling to go through with the physical part and leave the home with our son. I have no job as I rely on him for financial support and no family locally. Its now at the point where I really wouldn’t want him again if he asked. I’m 45 and can’t face the rest of my life stuck in a loveless and sexless marriage.

Mean husband

Posted by Anonymous in Spouse on Jul 23rd, 2011 | 13 comments

Sometimes I almost hate my husband. He is soooo mean to me. He gets angry for something like putting him on hold and making him wait for a few minutes (which was to talk about a missing check which I thought was important) and then calls me a bitch and says I have an attitude. He gets angry because I have hearing loss when I can’t hear him, but that seems to irritate everyone. He gets angry if I don’t cook. He gets angry if I do cook and he laid down to take a nap and the banging of pots in the kitchen wakes him up. He constantly bitches about everything. I can’t do anything right in his eyes. Then he’ll turn around and talk sex junk to me, like I really want to have something to do with him after he’s mean to me. Then he can be as sweet and caring as a sunny day and say loving things to me at other times. But the mean stuff overwhelms the good. He tells me I’ve got it better than most and that may be true. He doesn’t fool around. He doesn’t watch porn. He’s true to me in many ways and can be very funny. I’m 54 and overweight. I have tried to lose weight and I can’t. Menopause has hit and it doesn’t seem to matter how little I eat. I have health problems that might be making it harder to lose weight. Sometimes I am so miserable.

My Husband Says Its his Money

Posted by Marilyn in Spouse on Jul 5th, 2011 | 23 comments

He won’t let me smoke cigarettes, because he says its his money and he told me to get a ******* job. Yet the only reason i don’t have a job is because I’m taking care of our 4 month daughter.. I sometimes just wish I could leave and never look back.

So confused and not sure what to do… Long post

Posted by Tired and Depressed in Spouse on Jun 4th, 2011 | 15 comments

I’m 23 years old, mother of 2 girls under 3 (not twins, born 15 months apart). My husband can be very nice, is very caring, takes good care of us, and is a wonderful father to our daughters. But he is also very demanding.

Right now we are taking a break from our regular life because I almost left him because (as he puts it) I had a nervous break down from the stress. My moods are going up and down, and I just don’t know what to do.
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We’re getting married in 5 months…

Posted by Reluctant Bride in Spouse on May 24th, 2011 | 10 comments

I’ve cheated on you emotionally and physically several times over the last eight years.

I made out with my roommate and our mutual friend on a dare.

Remember when we broke up for several weeks? I made out with that guy I left you for before I asked you for a “break”. I only came back after he said nothing will happen between us.

I made out with our mutual friend. She said she wanted to make out with a girl, I obliged.

I had sex with a stranger one year ago. Felt really guilty about it and swore I would never do it again. Lied to your face when you asked if I had ever cheated on you.

A month ago while you were out of town, I almost slept with another guy. I let him touch me and I touched him. I’ve been texting him ever since. Tonight, I just now began to feel remorse about this.

We are getting married in October. Apparently, I’ve been looking for a way out ever since we’ve been together.

It Hurts

Posted by Anonymous in Spouse on May 20th, 2011 | 3 comments

We got married when I was 19 and he was 17. We both have no parents, no guidance, no love. I was in college, lost and drowning in the scene. He was back in our hometown, going in a different direction. We met like young people do and we fell in love. This is what sustained us in the beginning, our love and infatuation with one another. 6 years later our love has turned into a ball and chain that we use to abuse each other with, hurling it violently back and forth until the love is bruised beyond recognition and turns to hate. The hate makes us spit venomous words at each other in front of the baby. He uses her, he uses me, while i try to maintain my sanity. God help us please.