I’ve been with my boyfriend for a little over two years now. Even in the beginning we didn’t have sex much. Over time it’s become incredibly frustrating. He’s 31, I’m 21. If I try to initiate sex, almost every time, he wants absolutely nothing to do with it. If we go through with it, he rushes. If he initiates sex, and I’m not feeling it, he pretty much forces it to happen, even if it is entirely apparent than I don’t want it. He doesn’t believe in foreplay, and when he does, he feels that going straight for my sensitive areas is what will work, although I’ve voiced my feelings against this many times. He’s a good man, he does a lot for the household and helps me out a lot, but we don’t get along on a sexual level at all. I’ve tried talking to him about this many times, but to no avail. I don’t know what to do anymore.
Been without sex for seven months it is getting really frustrated. We are best friends. We have talked this over and he tells me I am free to go get it elsewhere. What man says that to the woman he supposedly loves. He says he can’t pretend to lie there and enjoy it. He spends more time texting his ex and his friends than spending time with me. I have considered throwing the towel in but i love him. The sex when we dud have it was great. I have been thinking bout this and all i want is a normal relationship. I did tell him that i was willing to work on this but everytime i try he has something come up or there is no interest. The self satisfaction thing is getting boring esp when one is in a relationship. Just getting hurt angry and second guessing our relationship.
The other day I went on a date with a guy I’d been seeing for a few weeks. I drank too much and he pissed me off. I blacked out and woke up in bed with a stranger. We had sex and the guy I was dating told me to **** off via text. I am so embarrassed. I don’t know who the guy was that I slept with. I don’t remember anything that happened up to the point of having sex with this stranger. I feel so ashamed that I mistreated the guy I was dating. But he was a jerk to me that night. I hate feeling so out of control of my actions.
I have been with my boyfriend for a couple of years and recently i cheated on him with my best friend’s boyfriend after things got a little to much with the alcohol. Anyways, my boyfriend thinks the baby is his, but i think it’s my best friends boyfriend’s but he doesn’t know.
I confess, I will be going on my first ever train trip, through the mountains in Canada. I’m really excited, but also nervous, only because I plan on making a special stop in a small town to visit an old flame. We’ve reconnected online and sparks flew between us, just like the old days, our sex life was something pretty special and amazing. As I said I’m nervous because I plan on packing a bunch of toys and fun stuff. I’m curious if a train station is like the airport and if security will tear through my suitcase, I don’t mind a general simple search, but I honestly plan on bringing some vibrators. How in the world do I save my self the humiliation as well as anybody else, just standing around with in earshot, maybe I just shouldn’t bother with bringing my toys and fun stuff. It almost all sounds like way to much trouble !.
I’m getting married to my fiance soon. We haven’t touched intimately for a long long time and I’ve been cheating on him with a Friend-With-Benefits. This FWB of mine recently got married.
I’m revolted at the idea of getting intimate with my fiance. After so long of not being in that situation with him, I feel more comfortable with my FWB. I don’t know how I’m going to survive this.
It’s the end of my life as I’ve known it. I can’t back down from this now but I’m literally throwing away everything I have. Basically a much younger girl wants me and I can’t say no to her. But I can’t do that to my wife, or so I thought until I hooked up with this young woman. I’m leaving my wife and kids and everything I know for this girl.
I’ve slept with;
my friends boyfriend when he got me drunk
my friends ex-boyfriend, I’m not sure why
and my friends brother, she wanted me to so I did
I’m a terrible person, I’ve helped someone cheat, slept with my best friends brother and my friends ex, usually I dont feel guilty, I don’t think about it and I certainly don’t think about how bad it all is, but today one of my friends mentioned it all as a joke, but it isn’t.
what kind of person does this sort of thing.
I am a Virgin Male and I really like this girl but i find myself getting really upset and angry at the fact she has had a sexual history that didn’t involve me now she has given me a number of former partners but i feel this is way low and also she may have been into so other stuff like 3 somes or sex with other women
while most guys would like the thought of this i feel this uncontrollable rage at even the thought of it i can’t explain it better than that it feels to me like she is a whore and i want nothing to do with her and i am disgusted by it i value intimacy and connection and the though of her having casual sex withou any of those things just makes me mad maybe it wouldn’t be so bad if she was in love with the person and they were together now i don’t particularly like this anyways and i wish i was her first as she would be my first but the thought of her just hooking up with one or more people just to be deviant makes me really angry and i just can’t get over it which i hate because i am really falling hard for her i have a feeling she may have had history with swinging also which is just as bad maybe even worse when i look at her sometimes when thinking this i just see some sort of diseased unclean person and i hate myself for thinking this way i am so conflicted about everything
I’m married. I haven’t had sex in over a month. I’ve not only dropped hints but **** out told my husband that I’m not happy about this. He doesn’t seem to care and honestly I’m finding it hard to not get pissed off and just go look for someone that can handle that but the fact.my husband doesn’t want me makes me feel like I’m not worth having and if I did go looking I wouldn’t find anyone interested in no strings attached sex anyway. When my husband and I had sex “regularly” it was 1-2 times a month. Now its not even that. I’m 28 and basically celibate, not by choice. I can’t help but thinking I’m too f*ing young for this. I want, need and crave the intimacy and confidence sex brings. But he just doesn’t care.
I’ve been hanging out a lot with one of my best guy friends who has a girlfriend studying abroad. we’ve slept together a few times recently (sober) and last night he told me he had feelings for me.
I don’t necessarily have feelings or not for him. he is the only person who has ever really intellectually stimulated me (as odd as that sounds). we talk for hours about the would, social problems, and he introduces me to ideas I’ve never even considered.
I don’t even know if I feel bad..
Just don’t know why I enjoy having sex with my step dad I guess its because he makes me feel good and that he does it good I just need to stop doing this I’m afraid that one day my mom will find out someone help me