heart breaker

im a cheater and i cant stop it i date guys and alsways dump them and the sad thing is it feels good to do that

LOVE

I am completely in love my boyfriend but i am too scared to tell him because i don’t think he loves me back.

Eventually

I have a wonderful boyfriend. I love him to death. He loves me just as much.
He constantly tells me about his past gfs and how they never actually loved him.
I tell him that I love him and I’ll never leave.
I know he’s not the one.
One day, I don’t want to but,
I’m going to leave him.

Confusing situation

I just want to get this off my chest, i have no one else to talk to so i came here. I have been married quite awhile, our relationship is good we respect one another and don’t fight often. A few years ago we separated and after talking it over decided on trying it again with the help of counseling. It’s been quite a while since the split up and for awhile things were going much better but eventually it kind of fizzled out. I’ve spent a lot of time thinking about this and i just don’t think i love him the way a wife should love her husband, it feels now more like a deep friendship type of love not something romantic ( i would like to make it clear that i am not romantically interested in anyone else) I got married at a very young age to a slightly older man and lately it just seems like we live together but don’t ‘live together’ if that makes sense, yes i have spoken to him about it but he says he doesn’t see a problem with us. I really don’t know what to do, a part of me wants to stay and work through this and the other want’s to see what my life would be like on my own. When we separated the first time i will never forget the look on his face, being heartbroken and angry with me. If i decided to leave i just don’t know if i could..
I would never intentionally hurt him and i’m terrified of doing so if i leave.

I don’t know what i’m looking for here, maybe some advice or someone in a similar situation?

Secret BFFL Love

i am a 14 year old girl and i have a 13 year old best friend, we have been best friends for 3 years now and 5 weeks ago i told her i loved her and she said she loved me too. we are so in love but cant tell anyone because we are scared of what they will think and say. we walk around holding hands as ‘friends’ and trying not to just kiss each other. i think about her ever second and if there is such a thing as a soul mate she is mine. i have had 2 bf’s and they were okay but i didnt love them like i love her and maybe its wrong but we have had sex and it was amazing so i dont understand why we cant just tell people but we cant. i cant tell my mum and dad because my brother is gay and they dont approve so i dont want them to not like me as much just because of who i love. i dont know what to do!!!! and also i dont know if we are bi or not because we both like boys and only each other is tht bi?

Am i really that bad of a person?

I have been married 5 years now, I’m quite young and try my best to be the best wife possible to my husband. Two years ago i left him because of a lot of issues we were having ( i don’t really want to go into to much detail about it, we were both at fault though it had nothing to do with infidelity) After 6 months apart and him going to counseling we got back together, it’s not really been the same but it hasn’t been totally awful, a month ago i met someone casual on a site (not a dating site mind you, i don’t do that) we hit it off and became fast friends, one night after i had come home from the bar with some friends i went online to check email and chat with other friends before going to sleep,he was on and we got into a really deep conversation about one another and how we both were starting to develop feelings for one another.. very strong ones in fact. Time passed and as much as i didn’t want to admit it i was quite sure i was falling in love with him, i know how wrong that is because i gave myself to my husband and no one else, he knows that i am married as well. We talk everyday and i am overwhelmed with guilt but i can’t stop talking to him.. i have never in my life met someone who makes me heart race and my head sing.It’s not fair to either of them for me to be doing this, i find myself stuck between a rock and a hard place.

I feel so damn awful but so elated and thankful for meeting this man at the same time. I have no idea what to do, i know i can’t keep going on like this though.

Its not love and I cant believe it ever was

I have been in an abusive relationship for a year, I felt as if I cant leave. It started with yelling and nasty words then escalated into shoving and kicking. I was not allowed to study. I cant have friends, and my family are alienated from me- under threat of more emotional and psychological abuse. He no longer needs to push me as the words are enough.
I look at myself now as I looked at girls that have been here before and ask “why don’t you leave? and why did you give it all up?” Because men like him, while he has very little else going for him, have a way of making you stay, trapping you, first with soft gentle words, then with pushing and shoving- until you have nothing left and can’t possibly be strong enough to leave. I never thought I would be one of these women.

I am going to leave one day, hopefully sooner rather than later, and my new life will be better without him.

I IGNORED HIS TEXT AND I AM SO PROUD OF MYSELF

I have been miserable for months. The way we meet and fell for each other, I was so convinced that there was something special until I realized that he was using my body to please his urges. I did it out of love but he did it out of his evil lust. It’s been going on for months. I am so much into him that I couldn’t pull myself away. Everything was so wonderful, like a fantasy…I was so happy until he got what he wanted and started treating me like I was worthless. I can’t stop thinking about him but today I finally did something I could not do before…I decided not to reply to his text. It was hard, I was really tempted to do so, but I did not and today I am really proud of myself.

Why do I stay?

You provoke all this and then threaten to cut yourself if I leave. I honestly only stay so you do not hurt yourself. It is killing me. I am not happy whatsoever. I think I am going insane. My death seems to be the only way out of this cold nightmare.

Hmm?

This isn’t much of a confession, it’s pretty much me needing advice, as much as i know that i shouldn’t do anything about the way i am feeling, i just don’t want that to be the only way! I’ll start off by saying its a typical story girl meets boy, bestfriends, and so on.

I recently met a guy, we used to be friends when we were younger but i left his school, and we recently got back in touch, we couldn’t remember anything from our past but we became friends anyways. It was through the internet, most of our conversations happen over the internet. I’ve went out with him a couple of times and I’ve talked to him on the phone a couple of times. He is younger than i am, but only in a couple of months, but acts way older than he actually is, most of the times, haha. We are VERY close, i’d say we consider ourselfs bestfriends, I tell him things I have never told anyone, vice versa. We would go up to a whole day talking none stop on any way possible, over the internet, or over texts. It’s suprising how close we actually are, and although we’ve only known each other for a couple of months, we completely understand each other in every way. Recently he left to go off to university, and i will be going off to university aswell, but we will be 4 hours away from each other. He has always ended up getting hurt by all the girls he dates, and i know we’d make a perfect couple, but I don’t want to ruin our friendship knowing that he might not like me the same way, we always friendly flirt, but i know he does that with all his friends, just like i used to do with most of my friends, not anymore atleast. he thinks im aamzing, and like wise, and he knows how goodlooking i think he is, but i barely hear it from him, I just, don’t know.. I’m not making anymore sense, and i know i should just stay friends with him, but i really don’t want to. Help i guess?

Why do i feel this way towards you?

You came into the start of this year, year 10.
Your populur, pretty, smoke weed, bad-ass scouse rebel, …not very smart, but why do i like you?
I was straight as straight can be until you showed up! then thing is i dont like anyone else ( exept boys ) but you. The thing is i see you stare at me sometimes, you walk so close to me when theres obviously enough space on the other side, you even held my waist when you walked past once. Or am i analysing it too much? we havent even talked properly before. i hate the way you mess me up inside, i even get angry at myself for not looking good enough for you.

love me.

I want to scream in a pillow right now.

ughh. dont know what to do. Every time he walks past the aisle I sit in, he smiles at me, even when hes talking to others in a group. He has such a beautiful smile. When he does this i completely lose track of whatever i was doing for a moment. When a bunch of coworkers go for happy hour and people start to leave, hell move closer to me. when weve gone out as a group, we always end up being the last ones together and we have these long conversations where I feel like I really connect with him.
Nothing physical has happened except I kissed him on the cheek when I was drunk once but I apologized afterward. I have a boyfriend, its not going well and Im going to break it off, but it would be really complicated to do so right now, I figured Id do it when I get back to college. (Hes currently occupying the apartment we share at school, I have a lot of valuables there) So I made a vow to myself not to let anything else happen. But then, just recently, coworker tells me he had accepted an internal offer in another country, starting in the Fall. This was supposed to be a secret, but he told me anyway. After this summer I wont be back until I graduate next May. Should I profess my feelings (to both parties) and risk losing of a couple thousand $, and risk a relationship with this coworker whose leaving for an unknown period of time in a few months? Or should I play it safe and keep quiet? I feel like he wouldnt have risked telling me this secret if i didnt mean anything to him. And Im wondering if just the feeling of getting this off my chest now is worth the financial risk. Note: he doesnt work directly with me, but on the same floor. Thanks for listening :)