I am married and slept with a good friend

Posted by anonymous in Friends on Apr 5th, 2009 | 16 comments

My husband was out of town for over 5 weeks and our very good friend (who works with my husband) and I hung out a lot and he helped me a lot when one of our animals got sick during my husbands absence. This guy and I have always had a fun, flirty relationship that was always very harmless, hence he is good friends with both myself and my husband. We ended up watching a movie one night, he confessed he wanted to snuggle and it seemed harmless, then one thing turned into another, etc. It happend 3 times, and we spent more time just hanging out in between. I adore him and don’t want it to effect our friendship, but can’t stop thinking about him & miss him not being around so much. Not in the same way as my husband, and I am very much in love with my husband we have a wonderful life and have been together for quite some years now. Has anyone else had a similar situation?

Suicide

Posted by gds in Friends on Mar 8th, 2009 | 12 comments

my friend Sara committed suicide today. i feel betrayed. killing yourself is the meanest thing you can do to someone its like a big up yours to all the people you leave behind. i m heartbroken i never knew her to be a depressed girl. i just wish people my age could know that its always better the next day.

gay marriage

Posted by hypocrite in Friends on Nov 17th, 2008 | 15 comments

i voted against gay marriage, even though i was apart of the vote no on 8 movement. i’m sorry to all of my gay friends.

Jerk

Posted by Anonymous in Friends on Oct 29th, 2008 | 8 comments

My best friend’s husband made a pass at me a couple of years ago when he was drunk and walking me home after a party. I pushed him away and ran. I never told her. I’m not the first he has tried it on with. I know he cheats on her regularly. I wish I could tell her what he’s like but it would break her heart and I can’t do that to her. She’s been through so much heartache. He’s a jerk.

MAKE ME!!!!!

Posted by Breathing in Friends on Oct 25th, 2008 | 0 comments

Tonight I burst into tears when I walked into the door after you and your husband dropped me off at home. In front of your parents, his brother, sister and husband, his cousin and all the friends assembled he insulted you!!!

I could not believe that he used the phrase “make me” after you righteously told him to control his outburst of expression. I sat frozen, but [name withheld] who was to my right on the same sofa looked at your husband with total shock. After your correct chastising comeback to him your father patted his hand on your knee. What a gentle way of expressing to you that “this was not the time – not in front of everyone.”

You had every right to say whatever you had to say because he was wrong and had it coming. It was your house, but if the same thing happened in my place, your husband and I would have gone outside and I would have had a “Come To Jesus” talk, and told him to apologize to you!!!!!!!

I sense that you two made up, but I think he should have manned up and told everyone that what he did was wrong and that he was sorry for it and that all of it was his fault.

My heart is sad because I know how much you try in this marriage and I’m just an outsider who only knows how much you hurt when you have needed and ear to nibble on.

I will say nothing more of this matter to you when we hang out again, because you will tell me that he apologized and so on, and so on, and so on………….

I heard it with my own two ears; those two words that were said purposeful to pull you into a fight and showed a lack of maturity and a disdain for YOUR correct chastising!!!!

I hurt also, ……because I would never treat you like that……and I think YOU know that.

One Night In College

Posted by Anonymous in Friends on Sep 17th, 2008 | 2 comments

Back when I was a sophomore in college, I was best friends with my roommate (we still are). One weekend his mom came for a visit. She was pretty cool and went out to the parties with us Friday night. All three of us got very very drunk. My roommate was finally going to hook-up with this little blond girl he had been eying for months so he asked me to take his Mom back to the dorm. I did and ended up hooking up with her back in our room. We spent most of the night together before she finally slipped over to her son’s bed to catch some sleep before around dawn. To this day that 42 year old lady was the most amazing women I have ever been with in bed. Much to my disappointment I was not in for a repeat performance Saturday night as all three of us spent a much more sedate night together in town. I have remained close friends with me roommate over the years. I would never dare tell him about sleeping with his mom. I do feel a little guilty about it. Sometimes that makes it hard when I am around him. Despite having seen his mother many times since that, both during and after college, including at his wedding, I have never had a chance to talk to her about what we did together. Even though its been over ten years and I am married with children of my own I still think about her and that one awesome night we spent together.

nastiness

Posted by anonymous in Friends on Aug 27th, 2008 | 0 comments

you your smoke drugs in front of your grandkids your house stinks dog feces eberywhere and you expect me to comeyou visit
i don’t even want to touch anything in your house when we try to dicuss this you get mad just to let you know i don’t hate you jsut clean up your act if not for you your family

horrible dancer

Posted by twinkle toes in Friends on Aug 20th, 2008 | 2 comments

it’s true, you’re so terrible yet you really think your good. I don’t have the heart to tell you the truth. you enjoy it so much. but there it is, you suck. now if you would please make way for someone with skills.

My best friend

Posted by D in Friends on Aug 19th, 2008 | 5 comments

I met her when I was just transferred to my new primary school. In the beginning I used to tease her till she hated me. But after half a year, we grew close. Wrote letters to each other, talked to each other every day. She lived near me. Her birthday was in the same month as mine. We all had our flaws, but one thing I could never get over was her selfishness.

Could never imagine a person to be so selfish after all these years of friendship. Perhaps was the closeness that made the person more direct to you. Saying ‘no’ whenever she did not feel like it, disregarding of your feelings. Always only doing as she pleased and rarely sparing a thought for your feelings. Making you feel like the friendship was one-way most of the time, like how you would feel in a one-sided relationship. I felt, sad. Constantly thinking of what I had to do to make her give a little back to me instead of just selfishly receiving from me.

In secondary school, she back stabbed me and she hurt me so bad. Until now, I cannot forget about the whole incident. I feel hatred and at the same time, always having to do nice things for her to cover up my real feelings towards her, which is hate. It is very tiring to have to keep pretending. But who will care anyway?

From what she tells me, about her boyfriend and her, doesn’t make me see her from another light. She gives him an option to come over or not, if he wants to see her. She doesn’t think much about rejecting his invitation to have dinner with his parents. Yeah, it’s not my business, but seeing my friend behaving this way, irks me, and I cannot reason why.

I think I am slowly drifting away from my best friend, and beginning to hate her. I cannot control my real emotions anymore and I’m afraid this friendship will end.

However, I always feel like I’m the only one trying to maintain it. She keeps me waiting whenever we meet regardless of knowing what ticks me off. She gives lame excuses when she wants to reject you. She has a bad attitude. Perhaps she feels that way about me too. I don’t know, and I don’t want to know stuff about her anymore.

We are so vastly different it’s shocking how we can even label ourselves as best friends in the first place. Maybe it was just a status, there was never anything real to begin with. I hate myself so much sometimes for trying to hold something together. Something that wasn’t meant to be…

I feel so hurt by her. Her words, her actions, or her no-actions.. I don’t know. I wonder time and time again whether our friendship meant anything at her to her. Perhaps it did but she doesn’t know how to show it. I wonder if she’ll ever read this someday and hate me for speaking ‘ill’ of her but in fact, this is all that I feel.

IS IT WRONG TO HATE YOUR BESTFRIEND?!?!

Posted by anonymous in Friends on Jul 29th, 2008 | 5 comments

MY BEST FRIEND LIED TO ME ABOUT CUTTING HERSELF, YET SHE WAS OKAY TO POST A PUBLIC BLOG ABOUT IT ON MYSPACE.
SHE HAS NO REASON TO BE SAD, ITS BECAUSE OF SOME BOYFRIEND. SHE’S LIVED A GREAT HAPPY LIFE.
I’VE TRIED DOING EVERYTHING FOR HER BUT SHE WON’T LISTEN, SHE TRIED TO KILL HERSELF!!! I TOLD THE SCHOOL COUNSLER SO…NOW SHE’S GONNA GO TO THERAPY I DON’T WANT TO WATCH HER GO THROUGH IT DAMMIT I HATE HER SO MUCH RIGHT NOW I DON’T WANT TO BE HER FRIEND, I JUST WANT HAPPINESS
SHE ISN’T THE SAME FRIEND I KNEW LAST YEAR, SHE’S A MONSTER BECAUSE OF HER SELFISHNESS I DON’T WANT TO GO TO SCHOOL AND I DON’T WANT TO DO ANYTHING!
I HATE THIS SHE USED TO BE SO HAPPY
I HATE THIS
I HATE THIS
I HATE THIS
I HATE THIS
I HATE HER
I LOVE HER
I WANT HER TO DIE
I WANT HER TO LIVE

I JUST WANT EVERYTHING TO BE ALRIGHT!
PLEASE I JUST WANT THIS FRIENDSHIP TO END
BEFORE I GET HURT AGAIN!

broken friendship

Posted by Steph in Friends on Jul 27th, 2008 | 1 comment

i feel like i don’t know who she is when i see her walking down the hallways anymore.. i’m scared and confused and i feel so alone now. she says everything changed when i came back from vacation.. that i hadnt talked to her..but i was catching up on my work and she didnt make any effort to talk to me.. im lost and confused… i want to know what went wrong, what i did wrong.. im scared i’m going to lose her forever.. is this something inevitable? will i lose her? my best friend.. i have no one else to turn to.. i cannot lose her.. i want to fight for us. but i dont know how.. i dont know what more to do then to explain myself.. over and over.. explain my feelings.. again and again..

golden gallant knight

Posted by lord randall in Friends on Jul 26th, 2008 | 0 comments

1ts been 10 yrs nw since we separated our ways.but i want you to know that still you’re the most special girl in my life.despite what u did.im not blaming you for that.i had my shortcomings.i just wish you a happy life.a happy and contented life!!!!!!!thank you denden!