The Helpful Friend

Posted by RedWrists. in Friends on Aug 21st, 2010 | 4 comments

I’m always there for my friends. When ever their in tough times or have troubling thoughts, Im there to give adivce and help cheer them up. But how come, when I need a shoulder to cry on, all I have a stupid pillow beside me? I reach out for help, but I dont get anything but sketchy replies. I thought it was cool knowing I was the one my friends come to for help. But when I need help, I cant give myself advice. I cant stop my own tears. I dont have anyone to help me. I dont have anyone to stop me from doing something stupid. Instead of cutting, I write to release my anger, sadness and pain. But sometimes, writing isnt going to cut it. As I write this, my wrists burn red with painful pleasure and I have no plan on stopping these scratches to turn into cuts on my wrists tonight.

My Best Friend…

Posted by Darling in Friends on Aug 14th, 2010 | 8 comments

I really hate my best friend. She’s a bitch. And it’s all too much when I’m near her. All that matters to her is her boyfriend, her ex boyfriend, and how much she hates boys. We’ve messed around a little bit. I’m 10 % gay, 90% straight, I thought that it would be fine. She’s bi, and she talks like she’s in love with me, but she’s awful. If she can’t have me, no one can. Any boy I come close to her claws are out and ready to attack. It’s insane. Then she’s talks like she owns me, like I’m her property. I hate her. She’s a bitch. She’s horrid and frankly the problem is, for some reason I love her too. It sucks. Help?
Oh, and talking to her about it, forget it. She would freak out and bitch and scream and it would all be over.

bad bff

Posted by i hurt you like the bitch i am in Friends on Aug 6th, 2010 | 1 comment

My bff and I went to a party. She got really drunk and stoned and a neighbor called the cops. When they arrived, I told them that we found her like that on a bridge nearby. She could face criminal charges. I just hung her out to dry.

in love….

Posted by Anonymous 234 in Friends on Aug 2nd, 2010 | 3 comments

i love you… your a very good friend of mine. everytime im with you , you make me feel like i have never felt before. i want to be with you all the time! this sucks because we are both girls and you have a boyfriend.no one knows that i like girls and in our small town i would be an outcast. we are both 16 and i don’t wanna feel any worse about myself so i will just keep my mouth shut and love you from a far.

too smart

Posted by JT in Friends on Jul 31st, 2010 | 4 comments

I know my girlfriends password to all her emails, facebook, and phone accounts. she thinks i dont know them. I know when she lies and tries to deceive me. i know she is not as smart as me, so i use that to my advantage. i have deleted facebook posts, some emails, and some comments from others. sometimes i feel for her because there are times when she thinks she’s being smarter than me, and because of my smarts, that will never happen.

bestfriends forever.. you lied.

Posted by anonymous in Friends on Jul 19th, 2010 | 2 comments

I honestly love you so much. Your my bestfriend and i would go to the ends of the Earth i would do anything for you, but i can’t keep up with this anymore, mood swings all the time. Changing your bestfriends frequently, and i’m always here for when you get bored of the “new bestfriend” you ditch me like no other, im scared of you. nobody understands. i love you when your nice, i hate you when your not nice. I just wish that one day you’d take a walk in my shoes. See how it feels.

Married beneath her

Posted by Never mind in Friends on Jul 5th, 2010 | 3 comments

I love my friend. We’ve been mates for over 10 years and always get on brilliant. Then she got into a relationship which quickly esculated into marriage.

I want to put this out there now…There is nothing I desire more than seeing her happy.

I just don’t understand how she is.

This guy is younger, both physically & mentally. He’s brought her down, she is overweight, looks unhealthy & they constantly struggle for money and yet they always find money to fritter away on food/cigs/gambling. They’re both a mess. He can barely string a sentance together through sheer stupidity and has already been in hospital for health reasons.

My friend used to be the life and soul of the party, she was gorgeous and so fun to be around but she’s thrown it all away for someone undeserving of her.

I know love is blind. But I sure as hell didn’t think it was stupid.

I don’t care I lost my “bestfriend”

Posted by done in Friends on Jul 2nd, 2010 | 3 comments

i said no to a favor. so she got mad and hasn’t talked to me since then. it does’t bother me at all. she’s suppose to be my bf, known eachother for manymany years yet i don’t care. my relationship was gettig stressful with her. i really didnt want to do her the favor.

Old friends Die Hard

Posted by Alice in Friends on Jun 18th, 2010 | 0 comments

Last summer, I did a very Mean girl thing and I ditched you. Completely. As time went on, I couldn’t remember why i did what I did and I began to tell myself how unfair it was. You were a decent person, you’ve learned so much since I’ve been away. I finally tried to contact you hoping you would forgive me.

Luckily, you understood and forgave me of my immature behavior and we moved forward almost like we used to be. And after a few times of hanging out it hit me like a ton of bricks why I stopped seeing you so long ago.

I noticed it in my dwindling wallet–the fact that I had a full-time job and you didn’t have anything. When we’d go out, you’d non-chalantly suggest something to eat because we were both scouring the town during dinner time.

I noticed it with my dwindling patience. The fact that you’re a backseat driver–pointing out the fact that the light is red or green, that the person in front of me is slowing down, or (without skipping a beat), telling me to brake from a million miles away. I’ve gone 8 months without getting into a wreck, and in case you didn’t notice, the whole time it was without you in the backseat.

And lastly, I’ve noticed it in the dwindling time I have left to do other things. Listening to you say, “So what do we do next? What store do we go to next?” has begun to grate on my nerves like two rocks rubbing together. I have a husband, and I can’t really afford to spend 9 hours a day with you, shopping and sitting on my ass. When I tell you that I have to clean out the car, or do laundry, or cook, you insist on coming along but act bored the whole time. Go home and act bored! I’d rather you do that than go, “So after you’re done, wanna go shopping?”

I can go shopping every once in a while, and that doesn’t guarantee that I’ll buy anything. I bought my own car, I got the insurance, I have an apartment with my husband, and we’re planning for kids. I’d love to go arbitrarily spending money like we did when we were teenagers but I have obligations now. I can’t afford to spend SO MUCH.

And one last note: Why don’t you get a job and spend your own damn money? That way when you loan from your parents and still don’t have enough, I don’t have to chip in.

I’m sorry I
m this harsh, and I won’t ditch you again, I just might slap you.

always worth saving you

Posted by izumiangel in Friends on Jun 16th, 2010 | 2 comments

I love someone impossible. I’ve tried to stop, but no matter how much I try, I can’t stop loving him. I even went so far as to try to hate him, but such a negative emotion toward him, for me, is just not possible. I don’t want to hate him. I don’t want to stop loving him, but I know that it’s what I should do. I shouldn’t love him. It will only lead to more pain for both of us. I’ve gotten to the point where I almost hate myself because I can’t stop. I know I can’t control it, but it needs to die. I don’t want to hurt him anymore than he’s already been hurt, and I know that my pain only causes him more pain because he DOES care about me, even though he can’t love me. That, in turn, causes me to hate myself more which, again, hurts him. It’s an endless cycle that neither of us can break, and it goes deeper than he knows.
I want to help him. I want to heal him. But I can’t. I try but I continuously fail. I may not be meant to save him, but that doesn’t mean I’ll ever stop trying.
I know you’re reading this. I won’t give up on you. I can give up on hope. I can give up on pointless efforts. I can give up on anything else. But I can never and will never give up on you. Because I do love you, and that will never change. No matter how much both of us may want it to.
I promise. I won’t let you fall.

I HATE my firends wife and want no part of either of them

Posted by anonymous in Friends on Jun 9th, 2010 | 2 comments

She is an awful person. Ignorant, self absorbed liar who is making his life miserable.

Friends

Posted by anonymous in Friends on May 28th, 2010 | 4 comments

I hate every last one of my friends for what they’ve done to me, and what I go through every day. I consistently feel abandoned, whenever I just want to hang out, or talk to them, I get blown off. It’s been happening this way for two full years now. I get new friends, and it keeps happening. What am I doing wrong?

Every time I feel like this, I’m reminded of every time in the past that a friend rejected me, or said something about me that wasn’t theirs to share, or just generally ****** with me when things we’re already bad enough. I don’t know how to deal with it anymore.

I just want to be in a group of people where I feel at home. I keep thinking I find it and then this happens again. I always end up crying alone in my room, afraid to go out anymore. I keep telling myself that things will get better, I keep telling myself that I can make friends. But now I’m starting to wonder and worry, is it my fault? What can I do. Please, someone, anyone. Help.