My best friend’s fiance has a sketchy past…

Posted by Anonymous in Friends on Jan 5th, 2012 | 4 comments

My best friend, (23) got engaged after only about 6 months, to a 37 year old. They are already getting married next summer. I wouldn’t have a problem with it I hadn’t heard really sketchy things about him. I have heard from numerous people, people that don’t even know her, that; he has a criminal background; he has been engaged before (he told her he never has); he’s commited insurance fraud; his family does not approve of the marriage; and that his friends are saying that he gave her a ring to shut her up, in addition to other things. I don’t know what to do at this point. Should I tell her or not tell her? I feel like if I do she wont believe me and will turn on me.

HELP!!

Unforgivable

Posted by Anonymous in Friends on Jan 3rd, 2012 | 1 comment

This summer i made out with my best friend’s boyfriend. I know it was wrong but i liked him before they even started going out. The guilt is killing me but i don’t think i can tell her >.<

friends

Posted by anonymous in Friends on Nov 20th, 2011 | 3 comments

i’ve done many things i regret, and now im paying for it with not having any friends, the 2 girlfriends i had i basically broke up with on my own, one was a crazy,somewhat socially awkward yet thoughtful person, the other a drug addict yet sweet and beautiful. and out of jealousy, from being hurt by them and out of being crazy myself I have no friends, just my boyfriend’s friends. Im all alone and its been over two years, i made peace with them, but now i have a cell phone that only rings when my lover or my family is calling.
its a hard to deal with and think about.

My Close Friend is Getting Married

Posted by Feeling Left ut in Friends on Sep 13th, 2011 | 6 comments

And I don’t feel jealous of the man (he’s ugly) but he shows no interest in being friends with me. I don’t know why, I was the one who got her to do online dating in the first place. They wouldn’t have met if not for me! It’s all happening very quickly and I guess I’m afraid of losing yet another woman to “marriage land” because all these women think that IF I CAN JUST GET MARRIED EVERYTHING WILL BE ALRIGHT. yeah, right. I think I’m jealous that at 40 years old she can still get daddy to pay for the wedding. My father is dead. She just seems to get EVERYTHING: apartment bought for her, father pays mortgage, mother buys clothes for her…and my family is dead, nothing comes easy to me. I wish for just this time in my life things would come easy to me. I really do.

No friends

Posted by anonymous in Friends on Jun 7th, 2011 | 13 comments

I honestly don’t like any of my friends. I always, always hoped I would find a friend like the girls in movies have. The girls that know everything about each other and help each other through anything. I don’t have that. I have my sister, but I can’t tell her everything.. I have no one. It’s building up, and building up and I don’t know what to do about it. I hope my boyfriend is there for me until we get married (there’s honestly no way we wouldn’t) and I have no girl to talk to any thing about. I regret it so much.

The night that made me a backstabber

Posted by Anonymous in Friends on Jun 6th, 2011 | 2 comments

In high school, I had a wonderful friend who helped me through a lot of problems I was going through at the time. We grew apart during college but she was and is someone that I still care deeply about.

She began dating someone, and I happened to meet her boyfriend by chance, without ever being formally introduced. There was a pretty strong attraction between us, but nothing ever happened. No cheating of any kind, no sneaking around, nothing more than casual conversation when we happened to meet. A lot of time passed, I started to forget about him, and eventually they broke up and he came running back into my mind.

And I just slept with him.

Despite the fact that I still like him (a lot), I promised myself that I would sooner cut him entirely from my life than hurt her. I broke that promise. And even though they are no longer together and no cheating occurred, I still feel like I committed the ultimate betrayal.

I made up a boyfriend

Posted by Anonymous in Friends on May 22nd, 2011 | 6 comments

This is properly the most pathetic post on this website but I have made up a bf. He lives in Italy while Im currently living in London. My friends believe me and I feel terrible that they actually believe me. I have ‘broken up’ with him but things got really bad that we recently got back together. God help me :(

im sorry

Posted by uneek in Friends on Jan 19th, 2011 | 4 comments

he broke your heart.
you havent stopped crying.
youve been texting me the entire time.
i feel so bad that your hurting like this…
and im sorry,
because ive been sleeping with him.

I have no true friends

Posted by Anonymous in Friends on Jan 17th, 2011 | 8 comments

I have no real friends. It’s sad and I am so frustrated about all of it. I have tried getting involved in two hobbies, (dancing & Music) and I have made a ton of aquaintences through both, but no one ever really calls to just hang out. I have always had this problem. It’s mostly my own fault as I have little patience for things people like doing like going out to bars and drinking or making a lot of small talk. As I write this, I realize how many issues I have. I suffer from depression and mostly this is from being alone so often. Its a long weekend, and I stayed home again on saturday night. Damn I am so sad

Hiding.

Posted by Anonymous in Friends on Nov 11th, 2010 | 2 comments

Well, to everybody around me, I’m a super happy person. What they don’t know is that I’m secretly hiding all me depression behind some sort of ‘mask’. It’s like, whenever I see my friends, I put a smile on my face. It’s mostly because I don’t want them to worry about me. I feel bad that I can’t tell anybody this. My best friend tells me everything that bothers her, but I can’t do the same. I feel like my whole life is a lie. I just don’t even know anymore.

I feel guilty because I am truly happy.

Posted by TheHappyOne in Friends on Nov 4th, 2010 | 7 comments

I have met a few wonderful ladies in college that are now my best friends. We get along so well and now that I have these ladies in my life, I feel completed. I never want to get married or have children. True friends is all I feel I really need. As I have grown to know these ladies, they have let me see behind thier smiles and laughter. I feel so guilty because there are no secrets for them to see behind mine. I am truly a happy person. Two of these ladies have absolutely no contact with one of thier parents. Not because of a death but because they are simply not wanted. I am a child of divorce and it has been a blessing in disguise. I have four wonderful parents who would do absolutely anything for me. My step-dad raised me because my dad lived so far away. My dad never failed to call at night and tell me how much he loved me. My step-dad gave me a better life than either of my parents could have ever given me alone. I love him for that. One of these ladies drowns her sadness in pills. She told me about a week ago that she had never had a best friend like me. I feel so guilty that my life has been so easy. I am a happy person. My dad, who I now live 10 minutes from, gave me a speech last night on self esteem. I am so confident and proud of myself. I hate that he thinks there is something under my smile like every other girl I know. There isn’t. My smile is ginuine, and I feel so bad because mine is the only one around.

I know its wrong to hate a child BUT

Posted by Anon in Friends on Oct 23rd, 2010 | 6 comments

I cannot stand my best friends daughter. She is an obnoxious out of control brat and just seeing her make me wanna scream. I didn’t think it was possible to hate an 8 year old but it is what it is.