Love

Posted by Anonymous in Family on Aug 14th, 2010 | 1 comment

I don’t know whether I truely love my family or not. My mom has made me hate the idea of a family to the point where after I graduate from college Ill never talk to them again. I know this is just me saying stuff but part of me doesn’t think that it’s a bad idea

junkie

Posted by brooke in Family on Aug 13th, 2010 | 5 comments

no matter how long ive been clean for, my family still looks at me as a junkie. im only 17 and i need their support to help me threw this. i dont want to end up like my brother.dead.

Step-kids

Posted by Anonymous in Family on Aug 11th, 2010 | 1 comment

Step-son moved in with us 2 years ago. He has brought so much drama and anger into our house that I can’t stand him. Can’t stand to even be in the same room with him. Counting down the months till he goes off to collage. Can’t say anything to anyone have to smile and act like the happy little family.

Mother-in-Law

Posted by JD in Family on Jul 31st, 2010 | 3 comments

I hate my mother-in-law. She is a horrible parent that constantly puts down her children. She tells them that they are horrible people and that she is embarrassed by them. She tells them that she is dying or moving away to get them to feel sorry for her.

The truth is, she is the embarrassment. She makes good money, but is unable to live within her means. She borrows money for the “payday loans” type places until she cannot borrow any more. She doesn’t pay them back and now none will load her any money.

She also borrows money from my wife (her daughter) all the time. Its the only time she is nice to her daughter….

Recently last month she needed to borrow $400 or lose her car (that she just bought). We didn’t really have the money at that time having just taken a vacation. When we told her we couldn’t make the loan, she proceeded to write my wife a long email detailing how my wife was such a rotten person and that she felt sorry for our son.

I had to call her out on this. I usually don’t get involved with my wife’s family, but this was the straw that broke my back.

Of course, her attitude changed completely once I called her out. Now I am the a-hole and she loves her daughter will all her might.

Luckily, my wife sees her bull and is not falling for it.

I really, really hope that she follows thru with her threat to move away…..

Dear Dad

Posted by YourLovingDaughter in Family on Jul 28th, 2010 | 1 comment

For years I let you manipulate me into hating my mother. I hated her for most of my childhood because of you. You seperated from her time and again, only to beg for her back each time. I didn’t know anything except for what you had told me. I didn’t believe anything she said. When I was 17 that changed.

She began to tell be all about what you had been doing. Your so called ‘morals’, you sell weed and pills to my older sister. You don’t smoke it but you buy it by the pound. You pop pills just to make it through the day. When I was nine I was locked out of our house because you had passed out on the couch from drugs. You dropped my off at my grandmother’s so that you could go party.

When money issues arose, you begged my mom to come home. You said that I needed a mother. And she came home, every time, for her children.

Years later, after dealing with your anger issues everyday and slowly bonding with my mother I find the oppurtunity to move out. When you left my mother for someone 20 years younger than youself. I stayed with mom for as long as I could, but I had to leave. For myself. You introduce me to your new woman. I’m in shock. My mother is beautiful. Always has been. This woman, she is a dog. All she cares about is your ‘money’.

Mom shows me text messages from you about drugs, and she cries. She wanted her family back in one piece. Against my advice she takes you back. I become angry with her. You tell me you want to leave again. You aren’t paying her bills anymore if you aren’t there either. “I’ll move home.” I tell you. “I’ll pay her bills. And if I can’t, would you let me live in the dark?” You say nothing. My mother finally realizes that you aren’t needed. She kicks you out. And without you knowing, she filed for divorce today. She’s stronger than she ever has been. After talking to her, and everyone else around me, for the first time I feel as though the fog has cleared. I see you for what you really are. You stole from my mother and I. And we are taking it back.

It hurts me to think of my life without you. I love you, and have always been your little girl. But I won’t let my mother be wronged by you anymore. Your gone again, with another woman and her child. You tell my mother you always try to call me. There are no missed calls on my phone. You still trying to use me against her, but no more.

Miss you

Posted by Anonymous in Family on Jul 22nd, 2010 | 5 comments

My parents are divorced, so my dad moved closer and we could never see him because of sports and activities, Well we called him one day and he said he never wanted to see us again and said he was not my dad. That broke my heart. Since, then I have to act tough and not cry about it to show my sister it’s not that bad. But, on the inside it was like having my heart broken and that I cry sometimes, and I feel that I will never see him agin.

Extra Marital Affair

Posted by Anonymous in Family on Jul 22nd, 2010 | 15 comments

I am happily married since 9 years.
We both love each other very very much.
I try to be most helpful & friendly to my wife.
Never had any affair before, and never hidden anything from my wife. Always keep open-heart with her.
At times, she is very jealous when I am talking with other females (in our friends or neighbours or even strangers).
But I tell her that I don’t act anything specially, but may be because of my open-heartedness or my way of talking and straightforwadness, the females themselves like to talk with me. And, I never keep any bad intentions for females.

Untill last month, when my wife went of vacation, one of our friends started calling me frequently over telephone. We shared some personal likes and dislikes while talking.
One day she told – I wanna come to your house. I welcomed her. She came in the morning when her child went to school and husband on duty.
I was really nervous, and was about to tell her not to come. But she was on her way. She came to my house, and I was unable to control (neither was she) and we slept together. She left within an hour.
This was nothing else than just an infatuation & lust – I know it very well.

But now there are two problems:
(1) I feel very guilty, as till now there was nothing that I need to hide from my wife, but this incidence I will have and have to (because we are from an orthodox background)

(2) That female has made a soft corner for me, and at times tells me ‘I love you very much’.

Please give your comments, how do I free myself.
Believe me I am too much religious and kind hearted.
How to get rid of these tensions.

Baby Love

Posted by Katy in Family on Jul 21st, 2010 | 3 comments

I want a baby more than our planned incredible life! I have a beautiful boyfriend who loves me, has planned for our future, wants to marry me and is even flying me to the UK to live for 2 years. And all I can think about is having a baby. All day. Every day. I am 26, have only $10k in savings and we’re not even married yet. But there it is: I am baby obsessed. Wish me luck for 2014 when we have planned to have a child. 4 years will fly by right!

every decision i’ve made has been the wrong one.

Posted by badmom in Family on Jul 17th, 2010 | 5 comments

I have known since before I married him that it would be a mistake. Six years and two kids later, it is still a mistake and has been every day since. I hate being a wife and i hate being a mom. At least once a week i lay in bed while my children scream and i fantasize about how i could run away and start a new life and never be found. Of course i’d never have the courage to do it… I’ll just continue to live life as a miserable martyr, and my children will grow up knowing that i hate being their mom. Shouldn’t that make me sad? It doesn’t.

I Hate My House and Everyone In it.

Posted by miserable:(( in Family on Jul 11th, 2010 | 11 comments

Getting a house with my boyfriend of 2 years seemed like such a great idea at the time. And everything was great, until his bum brother needed a place to stay. He takes my bf’s truck without asking. Eats all of our food, and our electric bill has nearly doubled. He doesn’t clean up any of his messes and his stupid girlfriend is here every weekend. I hate her, and I’m starting to hate him. My boyfriend won’t do anything about it. Won’t say anything and makes me feel bad when I want to. I’m tired of working my ass off just to be taken advantage of. When we finally confronted him about everything he didn’t say sorry of thank you. We asked him to find somewhere else to go and he hasn’t even looked. So he is still here and I am still miserable. All I want is my house back. I’m sick of them walking around like they own the place. I’m sick of all of them.

worst son in the world

Posted by anonymous in Family on Jul 7th, 2010 | 5 comments

i have been very cold to my mother for 3 years now and i just confronted her about all the abuse she would do to me as i was growing up, i told her how painful it was to hear her threaten suicide on my account and beat me for no reason. however, most the time she acts very nicely and loves me enough to stand against my oppresive father and make changes in my life he wouldnt allow. however, when i confronted her she claimed she couldnt remember doing any of those abusive acts and said she was sorry if she had but i felt her claim that she had no recollection of doing so was a lie and the tears were part of her manipulation because when i refused to believe her her sadness turned quickly into anger which she displayed in her face, and when i told her to seek a doctor for possible bipolarism she asked if i wanted to get her arrested because in america they take you to jail for this, her apologies seemed so ungenuine as if she were appeasing a child of acts that she described as, “small slip ups” or “any could have mistakenly done”. later she would try to hug and console me whilst making a kissy noise and talking babyishly like im some sort of ******* puppy she scolded for shitting on her carpet to which i’d smack her hand away and not respond. i feel she’s in the wrong but am confused,is she truly a good mother with no control over her rage, or is she lying and her nice side is part of the manipulation? i felt guilt after wards when i thought of the time i was 3 and we were in the park together,and i could tell that at that moment she was just as naive as i was at that young age, too naive to raise a child.

Mutha in law!!

Posted by Hurt turned into Hate... in Family on Jul 5th, 2010 | 2 comments

I will probably go to he** for this…..I HATE my mother in law….well soon to be EX mother in law. If she would have stayed out of our marriage we would not be getting divorced right now….Damn B*tch!
She fought for 12 years and never let up! Well I hope she is happy now….her son has lost his wife, children, house, savings, dog, everything just so she could be happy and cater to his every need. I hope he is happy! Now his mommy is free to make him lunch everyday and visit him every weekend without fail….all this because she is unhappy in her 30 year marriage and cant stand to be around her husband alone!!! I hope they are all happy!