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Posted by mommy and daddy in Alone on Aug 26th, 2010 | 13 commentsmy husbands job is to go fight for your freedom, while im home alone with new born triplets.while his job is saving your lives and protecting your rights,its ruining my life and our marriage.
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Have you ever thought of it this way!….. When your husband chose a career, he should have chose a better one! And when you chose a husband you should of thought about his career before getting involved! And before you got pregnant, you should of thought about how you will be a one parent mum! Conclusion… It’s your and his fault your situation! NOT Americas! We all have choice – obviously, you chose wrong! So, get on with it or change it! But don’t moan about a CHOSEN situation!! It’s like a smoker moaning he’s got lung cancer!! Errr… Of course! But then you don’t have to smoke!! Ur husband doesn’t have to have that job! Don’t winge n whine, change it and stop blaming the US!!
P.s i’m from the UK
triplets…. that’s hard! Can you afford some help, like a nanny that could come in for a couple hours per day and give you a hand?
I understand it is hard, especially with triplets. I just had a baby, my second, and I know it is very hard by yourself with three little ones all at the same time. However, he is not only fighting for our freedom, he is also fighting for his own and his family, which are you and the kids. It is an unfortunate situation that has occured to our country, and I wish it never had to occur, but anyone who joins any branch of the armed services has to be prepared to be in combat since that is the reason they have a job in the first place, just in case of war. I hope for your sake and other wives going through this, that the husbands returning can return to a normal life with their wife and kids. The only thing that could probably give you some solace would be to look for a support group in your area. It can be very helpful and reassuring to hear others in your situation and how they are managing. There are plenty online if leaving the house is hard with the babies (which I am sure it is). I hope you have fmaily to help youi with the babies in the meantime. God Bless and I wish you the best of luck!
Truth: I’m sorry I thought his job as a husband was to provide for his family. He is doing his job for you and your kids no matter if its fighting or flipping hamburgers. Be thankful in today’s world he even has a job. Go out and buy a bob like every other woman and suck it up, life is life, we do what we have to do to get things done. Wish you all the luck in the world
He enlisted, remember..? There’s no draft anymore. How did you end up with triplets? In vitro? If so, sounds like lousy planniing on your part too, take some responsibility
for god sake stop moaning about your hubby being away and leaving you alone! He chose his career – his fault!
You chose your husband – your fault!
You got pregnant and had kids knowing you will be a one parent family – your fault!
How can you blame US you stupid bugger! It’s like a ‘smoker’ getting lung cancer and then saying “i’ve got cancer of the lungs!” ERRRRRRRRRRR YEAH! OF COURSE – Silly bastard shouldn’t smoke then!!! by-the-way I smoke and if I get Lung Cancer, I won’t blame the UK or the US i’ll say “well it’s my own ******* fault I shouldn’t smoke!!! my problem!!! get the drift – this is you’re problem – for **** sake get on with it and stop bleeting. if you don’t like the situation ur in then sort it out STUPID!!!!!!!!
You can always ask him to change his career!
I totally agree with the above poster who could have put it nicer..but oh well the point was made. You did know what an army wife meant before marrying him, I mean you couldn’t possibly not know..you would be alone a LOT.
And your husband’s job is more noble than flipping burgers and not comparable. It is what he chose to do.
I think the invitro comment was not needed, it really doesn’t matter how she got pregnant or if it was lousy timing on their part. You can naturally have triplets..and if she didn’t oh well!
I get you are lonely and it’s tough, but I am not really sure what else you expected it to be?
“And your husband’s job is more noble than flipping burgers and not comparable. It is what he chose to do.”
I compared nothing, I gave examples of each side of the extreme spectrum. FYI there is nothing “noble” about war or killing a man, it is just something that has to be done. You can do it with honor and respect but trust me there is nothing “noble” about it.
Hang in there. Thank you for supporting him while he fights for our freedom.
I can’t say that I understand how you feel because I don’t. But I can say I thank your husband and everyone else fighting for our freedom each and every day so that we can live the life we want to. To all the people being jerks on here shut up and give her a break. I feel for you and I empathize with you that it is hard. Just don’t give up on him and know in your heart that you love him which is why you married him and he loves you or else he wouldn’t have proposed to you. It will all work out for the better. God has a special plan for us all and I hope you can see that. When you get time with him just let him know you love him and you support him. Don’t make him feel like he isn’t wanted in your life…because no matter what stresses you out about him being gone, he will come back and everything will be okayy. =)
Yeah, while he serves “justice” by killing other kids you are waiting him to take responsability of him taking care of yours. Hunny, do what you gotta do, but never trust him. The one who hurts others, can’t be good for you either.