RSSsad
My husband thinks I cry all the time because we’re having trouble getting pregnant. Actually I hate my entire life and I wonder if having a kid right now is the right thing to do.
Is it possible to love and hate someone at the same time?
I’m suffocating.
anonymous on February 3rd 2008 in Alone
Take a clue from me. said on 04 Feb 2008 at 3:03 am # Quote
Please seek help from a marriage counsellor. I was a child from a flawed marriage and I suffered. Do not inflict this on a child you plan to bring into the world and remember you are trying to save your life and marriage.
Lily said on 17 Feb 2008 at 7:34 am # Quote
I agree - work out your issues with your husband FIRST before you have a child with him. Your feelings about your husband are there for a REASON. DON’T ignore them. Work on your issues NOW because if you don’t, you will have to work on them later, which will be much harder when you have a child. Be honest about your feelings. Lots of people get married to people they don’t love for all kinds of wrong reasons because they don’t know any better, but it catches up with them. There are LOTS of self-help books out there you can read to help with your issues to work out what you really want. Also, try different counselors until you find one that feels right. I send loving energy your way!