http://www.secret-confessions.com/alone/sad Confess your deepest, darkest secret Tue, 06 Jan 2009 03:24:40 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.7 hourly 1 http://www.secret-confessions.com/alone/sad/comment-page-1#comment-718 Lily Sat, 16 Feb 2008 21:34:33 +0000 http://www.secret-confessions.com/alone/sad#comment-718 I agree - work out your issues with your husband FIRST before you have a child with him. Your feelings about your husband are there for a REASON. DON'T ignore them. Work on your issues NOW because if you don't, you will have to work on them later, which will be much harder when you have a child. Be honest about your feelings. Lots of people get married to people they don't love for all kinds of wrong reasons because they don't know any better, but it catches up with them. There are LOTS of self-help books out there you can read to help with your issues to work out what you really want. Also, try different counselors until you find one that feels right. I send loving energy your way! I agree - work out your issues with your husband FIRST before you have a child with him. Your feelings about your husband are there for a REASON. DON’T ignore them. Work on your issues NOW because if you don’t, you will have to work on them later, which will be much harder when you have a child. Be honest about your feelings. Lots of people get married to people they don’t love for all kinds of wrong reasons because they don’t know any better, but it catches up with them. There are LOTS of self-help books out there you can read to help with your issues to work out what you really want. Also, try different counselors until you find one that feels right. I send loving energy your way!

]]> http://www.secret-confessions.com/alone/sad/comment-page-1#comment-669 Take a clue from me. Sun, 03 Feb 2008 17:03:15 +0000 http://www.secret-confessions.com/alone/sad#comment-669 Please seek help from a marriage counsellor. I was a child from a flawed marriage and I suffered. Do not inflict this on a child you plan to bring into the world and remember you are trying to save your life and marriage. Please seek help from a marriage counsellor. I was a child from a flawed marriage and I suffered. Do not inflict this on a child you plan to bring into the world and remember you are trying to save your life and marriage.

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