Comments on: running away http://www.secret-confessions.com/alone/running-away Confess your deepest, darkest secret Sun, 15 Jan 2012 05:12:22 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: Rob j http://www.secret-confessions.com/alone/running-away/comment-page-1#comment-3706 Rob j Sat, 06 Jun 2009 01:57:16 +0000 http://www.secret-confessions.com/?p=2416#comment-3706 My parents didnt like who I was becoming, and let me tell you, if you would rather eat trash than talk to them it sends a message. Just stay at a friends (or boyfriends) for a week or 2. My parents didnt like who I was becoming, and let me tell you, if you would rather eat trash than talk to them it sends a message. Just stay at a friends (or boyfriends) for a week or 2.

]]> By: MICHAEL http://www.secret-confessions.com/alone/running-away/comment-page-1#comment-3293 MICHAEL Thu, 12 Mar 2009 14:23:56 +0000 http://www.secret-confessions.com/?p=2416#comment-3293 [quote comment="3174"]I'm gay too - when I told my parents, its like they completely cut me out of their lives. Now I don't exist. I keep thinking its my fault but I finally concluded that it's not. I appreciate myself and I know I probably hurt them, they're parents so they have expectations I suppose. But i decided to wait it out, I'll be living on my own soon. I'd like family to be supportive of me, but it isn't impossible to start everything anew. I have wonderful support from friends and they are absolutely unwavering. It hurts but be committed on living your life the way you want to and move forward.[/quote] [quote comment="2935"]Geez what is wrong with you people? Deviate behavior is learnt. The parents have every right to take all that crap away, it belongs to THEM!!!!! The fact that your cousin cornholed you might lead you to believe you like to slurp on a penis or two...LEARNT BEHAVIOR!! You might want to try to find a girl who will let you feel her tits and maybe more and you just might like it more than being cornholed. Finally tell your folks you are confused and are in need of psych help (you really are)and maybe enrolled in a lifestyle change group to set you straight again. Good Luck!!![/quote] OK IDIOT! First is is LEARNED not learnt. seconds do everyone as favor & jump off of the world! YOu have NO IDEA what you are talking about! SCREW OFF! Hang in there kiddo! My parents wrote me off too & I made it just fine without them. My father has alzheimers now & my mother wishes I were there to help her out! FAT CHANCE! [quote comment="3174"]I’m gay too – when I told my parents, its like they completely cut me out of their lives. Now I don’t exist. I keep thinking its my fault but I finally concluded that it’s not. I appreciate myself and I know I probably hurt them, they’re parents so they have expectations I suppose. But i decided to wait it out, I’ll be living on my own soon. I’d like family to be supportive of me, but it isn’t impossible to start everything anew. I have wonderful support from friends and they are absolutely unwavering. It hurts but be committed on living your life the way you want to and move forward.[/quote]
[quote comment="2935"]Geez what is wrong with you people? Deviate behavior is learnt. The parents have every right to take all that crap away, it belongs to THEM!!!!!

The fact that your cousin cornholed you might lead you to believe you like to slurp on a penis or two…LEARNT BEHAVIOR!!

You might want to try to find a girl who will let you feel her tits and maybe more and you just might like it more than being cornholed.

Finally tell your folks you are confused and are in need of psych help (you really are)and maybe enrolled in a lifestyle change group to set you straight again.

Good Luck!!![/quote]
OK IDIOT!
First is is LEARNED not learnt. seconds do everyone as favor & jump off of the world! YOu have NO IDEA what you are talking about! SCREW OFF! Hang in there kiddo! My parents wrote me off too & I made it just fine without them. My father has alzheimers now & my mother wishes I were there to help her out! FAT CHANCE!

]]> By: Amy http://www.secret-confessions.com/alone/running-away/comment-page-1#comment-3284 Amy Thu, 12 Mar 2009 03:40:10 +0000 http://www.secret-confessions.com/?p=2416#comment-3284 I'm having a simular plan like you--to run away. My perents are okay with me bein bi. But my social life is on the edge like yours. You should do it, but make sure you'll be happier. :) I’m having a simular plan like you–to run away. My perents are okay with me bein bi. But my social life is on the edge like yours. You should do it, but make sure you’ll be happier. :)

]]> By: julien http://www.secret-confessions.com/alone/running-away/comment-page-1#comment-3174 julien Tue, 24 Feb 2009 07:57:58 +0000 http://www.secret-confessions.com/?p=2416#comment-3174 I'm gay too - when I told my parents, its like they completely cut me out of their lives. Now I don't exist. I keep thinking its my fault but I finally concluded that it's not. I appreciate myself and I know I probably hurt them, they're parents so they have expectations I suppose. But i decided to wait it out, I'll be living on my own soon. I'd like family to be supportive of me, but it isn't impossible to start everything anew. I have wonderful support from friends and they are absolutely unwavering. It hurts but be committed on living your life the way you want to and move forward. I’m gay too – when I told my parents, its like they completely cut me out of their lives. Now I don’t exist. I keep thinking its my fault but I finally concluded that it’s not. I appreciate myself and I know I probably hurt them, they’re parents so they have expectations I suppose. But i decided to wait it out, I’ll be living on my own soon. I’d like family to be supportive of me, but it isn’t impossible to start everything anew. I have wonderful support from friends and they are absolutely unwavering. It hurts but be committed on living your life the way you want to and move forward.

]]> By: me http://www.secret-confessions.com/alone/running-away/comment-page-1#comment-3046 me Sun, 25 Jan 2009 01:31:59 +0000 http://www.secret-confessions.com/?p=2416#comment-3046 It wasn't your fault that you were abused. Let's start there! If things get really bad, consider reaching out to someone for support, even an anonymous hotline. Running away will only make it worse, legally. Finish school and move bwyond it all. It sounds like couselling is needed. No one can judge you. They don't walk in your shoes. If you feel depressed, be sure to protect your mental health. Despite it all, you can have a bright future ahead of you. Don't let your abuser win! It wasn’t your fault that you were abused. Let’s start there! If things get really bad, consider reaching out to someone for support, even an anonymous hotline. Running away will only make it worse, legally. Finish school and move bwyond it all. It sounds like couselling is needed. No one can judge you. They don’t walk in your shoes. If you feel depressed, be sure to protect your mental health. Despite it all, you can have a bright future ahead of you. Don’t let your abuser win!

]]> By: anon http://www.secret-confessions.com/alone/running-away/comment-page-1#comment-3001 anon Sat, 10 Jan 2009 09:12:32 +0000 http://www.secret-confessions.com/?p=2416#comment-3001 Not necessarily learned, as if one wants to, but it is created as evidenced by the inclusion of the fact that they were abused by the mom's nephew. At the very least, they need counseling to have someone willing to listen about the abuse. If the mother refuses to acknowledge the abuse, it will probably continue, and will definitely continue to injure this person. Not necessarily learned, as if one wants to, but it is created as evidenced by the inclusion of the fact that they were abused by the mom’s nephew. At the very least, they need counseling to have someone willing to listen about the abuse. If the mother refuses to acknowledge the abuse, it will probably continue, and will definitely continue to injure this person.

]]> By: ginny http://www.secret-confessions.com/alone/running-away/comment-page-1#comment-2979 ginny Thu, 08 Jan 2009 06:12:48 +0000 http://www.secret-confessions.com/?p=2416#comment-2979 Surround yourself with people who do accept you and do whatever you have to do to take care of yourself! Even if you have to stay there til you finish school, know that they have the problem, not you! But try to accept that it might take a while for them to come to terms with it, don't try to force the acceptance. It's not fair and it's not fun, but you don't have too much longer and then you can be on your own. Love yourself! My gf's mom was absolutely horrible to her about being gay and now after 5 or 6 years, she invites us to christmas, thanksgiving, etc. Surround yourself with people who do accept you and do whatever you have to do to take care of yourself! Even if you have to stay there til you finish school, know that they have the problem, not you! But try to accept that it might take a while for them to come to terms with it, don’t try to force the acceptance. It’s not fair and it’s not fun, but you don’t have too much longer and then you can be on your own. Love yourself! My gf’s mom was absolutely horrible to her about being gay and now after 5 or 6 years, she invites us to christmas, thanksgiving, etc.

]]> By: Tony http://www.secret-confessions.com/alone/running-away/comment-page-1#comment-2935 Tony Sun, 04 Jan 2009 06:49:11 +0000 http://www.secret-confessions.com/?p=2416#comment-2935 Geez what is wrong with you people? Deviate behavior is learnt. The parents have every right to take all that crap away, it belongs to THEM!!!!! The fact that your cousin cornholed you might lead you to believe you like to slurp on a penis or two...LEARNT BEHAVIOR!! You might want to try to find a girl who will let you feel her tits and maybe more and you just might like it more than being cornholed. Finally tell your folks you are confused and are in need of psych help (you really are)and maybe enrolled in a lifestyle change group to set you straight again. Good Luck!!! Geez what is wrong with you people? Deviate behavior is learnt. The parents have every right to take all that crap away, it belongs to THEM!!!!!

The fact that your cousin cornholed you might lead you to believe you like to slurp on a penis or two…LEARNT BEHAVIOR!!

You might want to try to find a girl who will let you feel her tits and maybe more and you just might like it more than being cornholed.

Finally tell your folks you are confused and are in need of psych help (you really are)and maybe enrolled in a lifestyle change group to set you straight again.

Good Luck!!!

]]> By: lezndallas http://www.secret-confessions.com/alone/running-away/comment-page-1#comment-2907 lezndallas Mon, 29 Dec 2008 19:28:47 +0000 http://www.secret-confessions.com/?p=2416#comment-2907 my parents disowned me too. its not easy, but you will get thru it. please finish school first, its the most important for you to get a job in the future. i know its hard with your parents not being accepting, but i promise you will have support from other friends and people within the gay community. get a job once you graduate, get your own place, and be done with it. best of luck!!! my parents disowned me too. its not easy, but you will get thru it. please finish school first, its the most important for you to get a job in the future. i know its hard with your parents not being accepting, but i promise you will have support from other friends and people within the gay community. get a job once you graduate, get your own place, and be done with it. best of luck!!!

]]> By: j http://www.secret-confessions.com/alone/running-away/comment-page-1#comment-2904 j Mon, 29 Dec 2008 05:31:47 +0000 http://www.secret-confessions.com/?p=2416#comment-2904 you are loved. you are loved.

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