running away
Posted by anonymous in Alone on Dec 26th, 2008 | 13 commentsim young im not 18 yet but i want to run away i feel as if my family isnt here for me they took away everything comp..cell..credit cards.my entire social life because i told them i was gay. i hate where i live and i hate the fact that they wont accept me.should i leave or go. if i stay its going to put me threw more torture than it has the past 4 years.i just dont know what to do and plus my mother doesnt beleive me that her nephew sexually abused of me.
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hi…sorry that your parents don’t accept who you are…i am straight but what your parents are doing is wrong..i am not saying that they have to accept who you are, but they should live with that and eventualy they will accept it…that’s a thing coming from inside you which you cannot change…that’s you and you can’t do anything about that..they should help you….you should wait till you’re 18 ( finish the school) …try to get a job so that you can support yourself…and then go
you should wait till you are 18 (finish school)…get a job so that you can support yourself…and then you can go…sorry that your parents are treating you like that…they should help you … in a way i understand you ( i’m straight)…you cannot change who you are and what you fell…and they should know that….
I have a friend going through the same thing. Her parents have disowned her for the fact that she has come out as a lesbian.
Do your best to contact some support groups for youth in your situation. Maybe get your parents in contact with them as well. They may come to realize where you are coming from and be more accepting.
Just be strong and don’t run away.
If you run away from them, they may get into the mindset that homosexuality has made you a freak and caused you to hate your family.
Stay safe and good luck!
you are loved.
my parents disowned me too. its not easy, but you will get thru it. please finish school first, its the most important for you to get a job in the future. i know its hard with your parents not being accepting, but i promise you will have support from other friends and people within the gay community. get a job once you graduate, get your own place, and be done with it. best of luck!!!
Geez what is wrong with you people? Deviate behavior is learnt. The parents have every right to take all that crap away, it belongs to THEM!!!!!
The fact that your cousin cornholed you might lead you to believe you like to slurp on a penis or two…LEARNT BEHAVIOR!!
You might want to try to find a girl who will let you feel her tits and maybe more and you just might like it more than being cornholed.
Finally tell your folks you are confused and are in need of psych help (you really are)and maybe enrolled in a lifestyle change group to set you straight again.
Good Luck!!!
Surround yourself with people who do accept you and do whatever you have to do to take care of yourself! Even if you have to stay there til you finish school, know that they have the problem, not you! But try to accept that it might take a while for them to come to terms with it, don’t try to force the acceptance. It’s not fair and it’s not fun, but you don’t have too much longer and then you can be on your own. Love yourself! My gf’s mom was absolutely horrible to her about being gay and now after 5 or 6 years, she invites us to christmas, thanksgiving, etc.
Not necessarily learned, as if one wants to, but it is created as evidenced by the inclusion of the fact that they were abused by the mom’s nephew. At the very least, they need counseling to have someone willing to listen about the abuse. If the mother refuses to acknowledge the abuse, it will probably continue, and will definitely continue to injure this person.
It wasn’t your fault that you were abused. Let’s start there! If things get really bad, consider reaching out to someone for support, even an anonymous hotline. Running away will only make it worse, legally. Finish school and move bwyond it all. It sounds like couselling is needed. No one can judge you. They don’t walk in your shoes. If you feel depressed, be sure to protect your mental health. Despite it all, you can have a bright future ahead of you. Don’t let your abuser win!
I’m gay too – when I told my parents, its like they completely cut me out of their lives. Now I don’t exist. I keep thinking its my fault but I finally concluded that it’s not. I appreciate myself and I know I probably hurt them, they’re parents so they have expectations I suppose. But i decided to wait it out, I’ll be living on my own soon. I’d like family to be supportive of me, but it isn’t impossible to start everything anew. I have wonderful support from friends and they are absolutely unwavering. It hurts but be committed on living your life the way you want to and move forward.
I’m having a simular plan like you–to run away. My perents are okay with me bein bi. But my social life is on the edge like yours. You should do it, but make sure you’ll be happier. :)
[quote comment="3174"]I’m gay too – when I told my parents, its like they completely cut me out of their lives. Now I don’t exist. I keep thinking its my fault but I finally concluded that it’s not. I appreciate myself and I know I probably hurt them, they’re parents so they have expectations I suppose. But i decided to wait it out, I’ll be living on my own soon. I’d like family to be supportive of me, but it isn’t impossible to start everything anew. I have wonderful support from friends and they are absolutely unwavering. It hurts but be committed on living your life the way you want to and move forward.[/quote]
[quote comment="2935"]Geez what is wrong with you people? Deviate behavior is learnt. The parents have every right to take all that crap away, it belongs to THEM!!!!!
The fact that your cousin cornholed you might lead you to believe you like to slurp on a penis or two…LEARNT BEHAVIOR!!
You might want to try to find a girl who will let you feel her tits and maybe more and you just might like it more than being cornholed.
Finally tell your folks you are confused and are in need of psych help (you really are)and maybe enrolled in a lifestyle change group to set you straight again.
Good Luck!!![/quote]
OK IDIOT!
First is is LEARNED not learnt. seconds do everyone as favor & jump off of the world! YOu have NO IDEA what you are talking about! SCREW OFF! Hang in there kiddo! My parents wrote me off too & I made it just fine without them. My father has alzheimers now & my mother wishes I were there to help her out! FAT CHANCE!
My parents didnt like who I was becoming, and let me tell you, if you would rather eat trash than talk to them it sends a message. Just stay at a friends (or boyfriends) for a week or 2.