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im feel so lonely i have been living with my relatives since i was 13 now im 21(not mom and dad) and they enjoy trying to make me feel like an outcast and tell me all the time how no one likes me if i was to fall on the streets no one would help me because im so horrible,selfish, stupid and that i think im better then them when im not i have high self esteem so it doesn’t get to me like that anymore and they hate it and put so much effort in it.i feel alone at home even when everyone is home and lately everytime i get close to a guy something always happen to make him leave and its so hard for me to really connect with guys on that level and not to be concieted but i get hit on date offers and free things all the time i even got hired onece just because of my looks making realfriends is been impossible even tho im very social at work but you cant call these people when you’re just had a fight with your aunt and need a shoulder to cry on and all the ones i have now we have grown apart execept one and she can only do so much with me as i am writing this there is a party going on at my house and im not there because i feel so out of place.i feel so so alone like im living in a country where i dont speak the language and i hate it so much
help
lonelygirl on August 6th 2008 in Alone
BIBI said on 06 Aug 2008 at 3:31 pm # Quote
WELL IT LOOKS LIKE U NEED A FRIEND..
AND THAT SEEMS SO MEAN OF THEM.
I DONT THINK YOU SHOULD BE LIVING WITH THEM.
U WORK U CAN FIND A HOME OF YOUR OWN YOUR 21
AND IF MONEY IS A PROBLEM.
IN OKLAHOMA RENT IS LIKE $525..
LOOKS LIKE THOSE POEPLE WANT TO GET
RID OF YOU!
AND WELL GIRL I KNOW HOW U FEEL.
I HOPE U MAKE FRIENDS
BUT SERIOUSLY U SHOULD CONSIDER CHECKING OKLAHOMA.
BUYING A HOME AND RENTING A HOME OR AN APARTMENT IS CHEAP!
WELL HOPE EVERYTHING GOES ALRIGHT FOR YOU
GOOD LUCK.
I JUST DONT GET HOW POEPLE OF YOUR
OWN BLOOD CAN BE SO COLD!
GOD BLESS YOU AND REMEMBER WHAT GOES AROUND COMES AROUND AND THINGS HAPPEN FOR A REASON!
angeles said on 08 Aug 2008 at 1:46 am # Quote
You DO sound conceited, which is most likely the reason you can’t make friends. There is a difference between self-esteem and conceit, in fact, a sense of superiority like you have actually indicates low self-esteem.
You also seem to be extremely uneducated, judging by your very poor use of English. That isn’t helping either.
Get some education and stop thinking you are God’s gift to earth. Start giving to others instead of always taking. Once you do these things, you’ll be surprised how many friends you make.
dasarathy said on 11 Aug 2008 at 10:09 pm # Quote
My Dear friend,
From the way I look at your confession, I feel that (a) you should stop feeling bad;(b) you should think, that there are thousands and thousands are, who are yet to come nearer to where U are now; (c) always think that no one else except U, who could make U happy.
A suggestion: Practice Deep Breathing,every day, first for few minutes in the beginning, and then go on practicing slowly extending to 5,10,15,20 minutes, and so on, OF COURSE, with, rest
for every 3 minutes. See the change after a week. You should concentrate on whatever your lord, may be. Wish U early recovery from your present position.
Shhh... said on 17 Aug 2008 at 6:15 am # Quote
I, too, think that maybe, you’re not giving as much as you think you deserve to receive, bt who am i to judge in the four sentences you wrote?!
Just remember, there are more than 10 billion people on earth and one preson, is looking for EXACTLY what you have to offer.
Zahid said on 18 Aug 2008 at 3:30 am # Quote
Well that’s how selfish, horrible people get treated worldover. I used to be like that in office and in the end, I had to consider a move on to other firm. And then I realized how important it is to play nice with selfish and horrible people :D Change yourself now. Bring some fruits for the family. Arrange birthdays. Pretend to be nice and enjoy a good life. Why move to Oklahoma and come back after losing badly? Live with your family. There’s no place like home!