Lonely

I think I’ll be single for the rest of my life.
The sad part is that people actually say I’m pretty and guys do hit on me, occasionaly.

Virgin on July 22nd 2008 in Alone

6 Responses to “Lonely”

  1. anon said on 24 Jul 2008 at 3:40 am # Quote

    Just because you’re pretty doesn’t mean you’re good at relationships. … maybe that’s your problem. Looks aren’t everything…

  2. Me said on 08 Aug 2008 at 3:52 pm # Quote

    ME TOO!! you’re not alone. I don’t know how old you are and I don’t know if telling you my age would help so I just won’t. I know when I hear of people older than me who are virgins it only makes me want to cry, to think it can get worse. I’ve never had a boyfriend, I’ve never been kissed. It’s terrible. I see people around me find love so easily, as if it’s just free for anybody, just laying about for the taking. it feels unfair. I know what my problem is. it’s not my looks. i’ve seen women who I would consider far less attractive than myself in loving relationships. The truth of the matter is, it’s fear. I’m afraid of intimacy. i’ve never been really close to anyone, not even a best friend since junior high. I’m far too gaurded, I let men know (without meaning too) that I’m unavailable before they even have a chance to consider me. i’m friendly enough, it’s just something more subtle. and I wish I knew how to stop it. I want to be in love with someone who loves me too. I have resorted to pursuing men and it was humiliating and I just didn’t know how to stop. I was far to persistant. the kind of persistant I wish a man would be for me.

    good luck to you.

  3. mendy said on 19 Aug 2008 at 4:31 pm # Quote

    come on im a man and it is hard to find a
    girlfriend u girls are so picky that it kills me to understand what u want or a don’t want , let me give exmp;
    a guy has to be, good looking
    a guy has to be ,play hard to get
    a guy has to be ,fit tall
    a guy has to be ,treat her like shit
    and then u like him , so tell me how a good guy like me can win, beause im not that guy on the list ?

  4. Soraya said on 21 Aug 2008 at 5:43 am # Quote

    i’m attracted to hot guys, but i’ve never gone out with one. these days people are too superficial. I hate it when guys play hard to get because i don’t pursue guys. I don’t chase after them because when they act like they could care less, i believe it. my last boyfriend wasn’t very good looking, an inch shorter then me, and treated me like shit behind my back while he acted like he was in love with me to my face. I broke up with him because of the last part. looks aren’t everything. many people say that i’m really pretty, some people say i’m not. if a guy asks me out, i’m not a bitch to them. if i don’t like them i let them down easy and no harm done. i don’t change the way i think of that person. boys are real people. girls are real people. they have the same feelings and similar insecurities. why don’t some people just realize that? and mendy, maybe you’re setting your sights too high, yourself. idk but i’m just thinking that i know plenty of girls, some of which are extremely pretty, who have gone out with their polar opposites - unnattractive, short or tall, really sweet….

  5. mendy said on 25 Aug 2008 at 11:57 am # Quote

    In world that we live in live in comeon , I was out there on saturday night in the city and the people are like brick wall and wired fans build around them from insecurities
    if u think im wrong just go to the club called ‘marquee’ in the city and tell me how u feel about it ?and soraya if u think I’m wrong show me how because aim about to give it all the dating seen it drives me coo coo

  6. candice said on 06 Nov 2008 at 8:56 am # Quote

    i admit i’m picky. but looks have nothing to do with it. i want a smart guy. one that i can have an intelligent conversation with. i want one who loves all of my quirks [and would never want to change me].

    the thing is… no one likes my quirks, my bouncing on couches, my singing in public. boys always find something about me they don’t like [and its not my looks].

    maybe i’m guarded too, i’ve never been shown love. so i don’t tend to show it well.

    maybe it’s all my own fault, and i’m doomed to be alone forever because i just can’t change who i am.

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