I had a miscarriage
Posted by sadinlosangeles in Alone on Apr 10th, 2011 | 8 commentsi didn’t even know i was pregnant, but i can’t get over seeing it. my flesh, my baby or rather what could have been my baby. when it happened i didn’t know what was happing i thought my uterus was falling out. I took a pic of what came out of me so i could show it to my doctor, i also showed it to some of my coworkers, my husband and my mom. Soooo i felt super shitty when i found out what happened. i’m crushed, my heart is broken. and the doctor wasn’t very nice about telling me, he said ” congratulations but unfortunately we are 100% sure you had a miscarriage” i didn’t know what to think or feel. now that it set in, i feel like i’ve lost a part of my heart. i cry almost every day, and it happened LAST FALL, the pain wont go away. i feel like i failed my unborn child and my husband. i just want the pain to go away and now a few of my friends are pregnant and it makes my feel worst, i should be happy for them but i’m not i’m jealous and it makes me mad that they get to have something i want, at this point i need it. i dont think i can go on much longer with a child. i want to stop taking my birth control pills so i can get pregnant. my husband and i talked bout it and we thought next spring would be best, but i don’t believe that anymore. i just can’t tell him that. i don’t know what to do and i have no one to talk too.
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I’m sorry to hear. Many women have to deal with this, and it’s sad, but they eventually learn to live with it. I hope you do too.
Warm regards,
D
I am so sorry for your loss. I understand how you feel. I lost a baby in 2009 and I couldn’t stop crying. It is very painful to go through. I had to get on anti-depressants because the crying spells were frequent. Losing a baby is difficult and while it is nature’s way of telling you that something was wrong with the baby, it doesn’t lessen the pain. I hope you get your wish of being a mom soon. My heart goes out to you. (((Hugs)))
please get over it..it has been over a year for god’s sake. obviously it was no one’s fault and you are stressing over nothing. if you want a baby, try again. there is nothing stopping you. miscarriages happen.
you are so hateful thats mean juss get over it..so wrong
I’m sorry but you are being irrational. You didn’t “fail” anyone. Obviously this was no one’s fault and you need to get over it and move on. It’s been over a year! Also, I think you may need to seek therapy to find out why you are reacting this way because it’s just not normal. Miscarriages happen. If you want another baby, try again. If not, don’t. It’s that simple. You are only hurting yourself and your marriage by making it into something it’s not.
it was last nov. so it has not been a year. Dec 10th my grandfather past away so i guess i put other feelings side, and i am only now starting to deal with it. so thanks for trying to tell me to get over it BIG help, jackasses.
I’m sorry to hear that. and thank God anyways because it might have been worst !! and who knows maybe that baby was gonna get you in troubles and etc but God pushed him away and he’ll make it up for you with something better <3 just take sometime, chillax and don't think too much. you don't need therapy just say La elah ela Allah and you'll feel better much much better . wish you all the best
a miscarriage is nature’s way of getting rid of a defective fetus. something was wrong with it. be glad it did not go on and grow and then your life would really be messed up big time by taking care of a less than normal baby/child adult. do you realize some women are stuck taking care of defective fetuses that should have miscarried?