RSSI am Ugly and Alone
I am an ugly 23 year old girl. Who has never been loved. My family, my friends find me utterly good, but not a single person around me finds me interesting.
I am so alone… its like I am the only colourless picture in a colourful world of happiness and love. No one loves me, because I am not pretty or skinny. I am the loudest person in my group and the fattest one too.
I feel like I am so alone, so single, so utterly depressed to see everyone having a partner, except for me. I am fed up of my self I need some one who could care for me… I am an empty room with nothing in me. I need comfort,I need someone who would understand me and love me for what I am.
Anon on February 23rd 2008 in Alone
Someone said on 23 Feb 2008 at 10:28 pm # Quote
Please, don’t tell that to yourself over and over again because it is suffocating. Love yourself by doing hobbies or things that really make you happy. You are only 23, there are so many people out there from different nationalities who can be your friends! Once you start working, you’ll meet other people too. You said you have friends and family who see you good… well? what are you waiting for? Be with those people! Develop strong friendships with them. I don’t think you are colorless… if you look deep inside yourself, you will find things that make you unique and made you happy. Go for an exercise! Smell the flowers! Get yourself a massage! Get a new haircut! Play an instrument! Watch a funny cartoon! Talk to people little by little until you become comfortable with yourself! You need to dig deeper… you’re a young girl! I’m a 23-year-old girl too and I try not to let some setbacks down! I get sad too sometimes but then, who has the time to be lonely when I can be who I can be! I know you can do the same! Go for it!
beholder said on 25 Feb 2008 at 3:39 am # Quote
hi have you ever heard of the saying BEAUTY IS IN THE EYES OF THE BEHOLDER well what is for you will be for you dont go rushing yourself out there for guys and then end up regretting ur actions take your time live your life the best you can and who may come will come but before then enjoy your life and for all those who may want to say ur ugly tell them its ugly to call names and its immature and if they still dont get it tell them ALL YOU HATERS WHO ALWAYS GOT MY NAME IN UR MOUTH DO WHAT YOU DO BEST AND SWALLOW IT!!!
thahammer said on 28 Feb 2008 at 3:00 pm # Quote
You are beautiful, you just don’t see it yet. Allow you to love yourself, and others will too. Don’t waste time on those who don’t respect and appreciate you. You are obviously deep and sensitive (remarkable for someone so young), and in and of itself, that is beautiful. Give others time to mature and catch up with you, they eventually will.
no one said on 10 Mar 2008 at 5:14 pm # Quote
I know how you feel. I am dealing with exact same thing. The loneliness is killing you from the inside. But you know what, I just believe somewhere somehow, there is still hope for people like us. There will be time when people will see just how beautiful you are. All we have to do is try to deal with these loneliness the best we can and one day hopefully, we don’t have to be alone anymore. Be strong.
Miniscule said on 17 Mar 2008 at 6:42 pm # Quote
Listen to Kate Bush’s song “In Search of Peter Pan”
Its been such a long week.
So much crying.
I no longer see a future.
Ive been told when I get older
That Ill understand it all.
But Im not sure if I want to.
Running into her arms
At the school gates
She whispers that Im a poor kid.
And granny takes me on her knee.
She tells me Im too sensitive.
She makes me sad.
She makes me feel like an old man.
She makes me feel like an old man.
They took the game right out of it.
They took the game right out of it.
When I am a man
I will be an astronaut,
And find peter pan.
Second star on the right,
Straight on til morning.
Second star on the right,
Straight on til morning.
Dennis loves to look
In the mirror.
He tells me that he is beautiful.
So I look too, and what do I see?
My eyes are full,
But my face is empty.
Hes got a photo
Of his hero.
He keeps it under his pillow.
But Ive got a pin-up
From a newspaper
Of peter pan.
I found it in a locket.
I hide it in my pocket.
They took the game right out of it.
They took the game right out of it.
When I am a man
I will be an astronaut,
And find peter pan.
Second star on the right,
Straight on til morning.
Second star on the right,
Straight on til morning.
Second star on the right,
Straight on til morning.
When you wish upon a star,
Makes no difference who you are.
When you wish upon a star
Your dreams come true.
20yr old said on 24 Mar 2008 at 6:02 pm # Quote
stop feeling sorry for yourself and start living..
yuli said on 27 Mar 2008 at 6:01 am # Quote
You have to have self-esteem, you have to be around people that really likes you the way you are.Try to be positive and be patience for love, why you want a guy that is gonna be gone the next day.I’m 20 yrs. old I’m pretty I have car I can have whatever guy i want…..And i feel so empty right now you don’t imagine.I lost my baby and two weeks later i lost my love for some stupid reasons, Now tell me if being pretty help me be happy…
anonymous said on 11 Apr 2008 at 2:42 pm # Quote
I have felt the same, but found that one simple thing helped so much: resolve to spend time with people who make you feel good about yourself. There are people out there who are like you, or who’s strenghts compliment yours and you fit together well. They just might not be the people you expect, but out of all the human beings out there, some will love you just as you are. Don’t be discouraged. If you need some help in finding them, volunteer, find someone else who needs a friend and be a friend for them. It takes time, but you’ve got a whole life ahead of you and of course you’re somebody. Everyone is.
Spize said on 23 May 2008 at 2:29 pm # Quote
your not alone i know how you feel
its hard but you should always be the best you can be one day you and everyone like you whould be happy
thinkof this as a learning experience after all of this you will come out stronge and beatiful inside and out you will learn life lessons and maybe you have not bloomed yet our they maybe blind not to see the good things about you and 1 day you will find the right guy who will love you so dont take your time goodluck remember everyone has a chance to bloomme and surround yourself with good people
Sherika (Jamaica) said on 26 Sep 2008 at 4:53 pm # Quote
No human being needs another person to make them “feel” happy or wanted.
Happpiness and Love has to be built INSIDE u first!!
No-one should ever feel like they need someone else to make them feel valuable!! My best advice to u is to talk to a guidance counselor or someone who can relate to u ok
Fliss said on 27 Sep 2008 at 3:03 am # Quote
Hi…Im so sad dat u keep repeating how ugly you are….n think dat is d reason for ur loneliness….but lemme tell u dats not so! Apart from what everyone has written above, about true beauty being on d inside of a person n not frm d skin or color of it, I wanna tell u one more thing. You need to stop thinking dat its ur looks that have created all this emptiness in ur life. Im, for example, skinny, thin, have very shrap features n everyone around me considers to be very beautiful n hot. Still Im as lonely n depressed as you…being lean n attractive doesnot provide u wid happiness, nor does it prevent you from getting hurt. I find a zillion people around me who say dey love me, who say dey want me…but when I actually need someone, ders not a single soul around me to help! Moreover, everyone always talks shit about me..I have no actual respect…forget about love n care! If I let someone come even a little close, they shatter me n make der exit! I dont have anyone around me who I can feel good wid, or who makes me feel any good! All the emptiness has consumed mah life…n my loneliness kills me at times! Each day a part of me rusts away…but thats just the way it is! Life treats everyone badly at some point of time…however it doesnt see ur shape and size dear! You need to stop suffocating urself wid negative thoughts…feel beautiful and you’ll look beautiful! Learn to compliment urself and the most important thing of all:::dont depend on others for ur own happiness!