i am lonely

i am unsuccessful ,incompetent,introverted,and lonely and i counter this loneliness by watching talkshows and porn.all this while my incompetence keeps on growing.and i have failed at so many things that i have absolutely zero self confidence,and that makes me stop from trying new things.

7 thoughts on “i am lonely

  1. Bro , youre losing the battle life, its so easy, i can understand if youre plagued by mentall illnesses, emotion obstacles etc.
    but i kid you not every one of youre problems, lonely, introvert, incompetent, and unsuccesful is easily fixed , you have to want it bad, you have to work hard to get it,
    i know lonely on two diffrent levels, it kills and destroys. watch a motivation video on youtube those dudes will tell you whats wrong with the way you think good luck a.d ill see you at the finish line

  2. Hello. You could have a friend in me if you wanted. Im a great listener. We can become friends. Only if you want but if not. I hope you get better at being the person you want to be.

  3. Things will be better man….your not a lose just going through a rough patch. God put you on this earth for a reason and everything and everyone has a purpose…this may not be much but trust in God allow him to change your life it did mine…stay strong brother

  4. I understand the pain and frustration that you are going through. The high’s are not high enough, and the lows are lower then you ever thought possible. You look around and see people laughing, smiling, having fun and then there is you. I get it, I understand, and I am with you. I feel the same way- you are not alone. Life has a way of throwing you curve balls, and things will not be like this forever. You will have your time and find the happiness that you crave.

  5. You’d be surprised how many lonely women there are out there doing the exact same things as you.

    Using porn feels fun temporarily. Pornography can be useful. But when it’s used as a substitute for intimate human connection you can end up feeling lonelier after every session.

    Your low confidence is a state of mind. To get rid of this feeling, reach out and get some human contact. It’s OK if it’s over internet. Even in a video game.

    Start there, and push yourself just to meet people.

    Start playing Ingress and connect with the local community of your faction.

    Stop focusing on what you’re not, and try focusing on having “super fun.” People tend to gather around fun people.

    And never forget that failure, from a scientific view, is an opportunity to collect knowledge you didn’t have before. Fool me once, shame on you…

  6. Dear Friend,

    Please try to get into therapy so that you can begin to feel better about yourself and your life again. And please start telling yourself kind things instead of giving yourself negative labels. Those things are limiting you and your success. Be well and let us know how you’re doing.

    1. I know this feeling too. The inability to anything but fail and disappoint. And while intentions go so far. It always ends up a werck

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