I am embarrassed to take all of my kids in public with me!
Posted by Journey in Alone on Jan 24th, 2010 | 2 commentsI have five kids and I feel embarrassed going to the store with all of them. I am divorced and would like to start dating….but I have noticed that men do not approach women walking around with a whole bunch of kids. Now my kids are all well manner, well dressed and very nice looking….I just feel like people look at me like something, is wrong with me because I have so many kids.
Now I would never hide from a man my children, once I got to know him and felt he was worthy of meeting my kids…. and that we had the possibility of having a long term relationship.
I am a nice looking and educated woman….that just feels that men who see me with my five kids, will think that I am either an easy piece of ass or that I am desperate for a man and therefore will except anything from a man.
I am very picky and will not accept just any type of man….I just feel like men…don’t need to know how many kids I have until we truly have a connection and a future. Basically…I would get detailed about me and my life after they pass the interview and the background check.
I am curious to know if other people have ever felt this way???
2 Responses to “ “I am embarrassed to take all of my kids in public with me!”
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You should NEVER I mean NEVER feel the need to be embarrassed to take your kids out in public with you.I feel that if they are well dressed and behave good, then why not.?!?!? Their are some women who doesn’t take their kids out with them at ALL.! At least you do, and thats what matters. If a man cant accept nor love your kids, then hes not worth it at all.! It shouldnt matter how many kids you have, it should matter are you taking care of them properly, and if you are, then hey whats they problem.? I hope you find the right man who’s willing to try to have a conversation with you when your out with your kids or not.!
There are many many men out there that absolutly love children. a good relationship iws built on trust and running a background check on any man and requiring him to “pass your tests ” is somewhat insulting and demeaning to the man.
Find a man who is genuinly close to God and everything else will be right. Good Luck
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