Gay and In Love
Posted by Anon in Alone, Guilt on Mar 8th, 2010 | 2 commentsI’m gay and I haven’t told my parents. I’m also in love with a girl who already has a girlfriend. She completes me…and I can’t imagine my life without her. She knows, and says she loves me too, but doesn’t want to break up with her girlfriend because it would ruin their friendship. Also, we live on opposite sides of the world. I feel so guilty but at the same time I wish she would just admit it…and come to me. I would die without her…I really would.
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Just be friends for now…when you’re a bit older if your feelings are really real then you will still be there for eachother and in a better position to move across the world to be together.
If she loves you too she will wait.
In the meantime you can’t be mad at her for wanting to have comfort and physical affection when she can’t get what she wants from you. I also suggest you keep your mind and your heart open to relationships with people nearer to you. If you’re both meant to be together you will find eachother when you can. Until then there’s no reason to shut yourself off from love.
You’re both so far away. Have you even met in person? It’s hard in that situation.
I think you should tell your parents though. It might not be as hard as you think.
actually you won’t die without her…really. I don’t know how old you are but i can truly say from experience you are not alone, we have ALL felt this way…move on and find someone else, you probably will when you’re not looking..also, i don’t want to make light of being gay, i can’t say how hard that is, i never had to deal with telling the parents that, but let me say it is a lot easier now days, i know that from the gay friends i’ve had who had to come out in the 80′s/90′s……..you’ll be fine…..good luck..