RSSAlone… is it my fault?
My boyfriend and I were together for 9 months… I started growing away from him and he tried so hard to keep things working. But then he started pulling away. I tried to stop what was happening but it was too late and we broke up. Then I found out I was pregnant. So we got back together. He says he can’t believe he’s back with me because of the way I treated him at the end of out relationship. He refuses to sign the birth certificate because if his school finds out he would be kicked out and lose all chance of becoming an officer in the Army. He says he’ll sign after school, but it hurts. He’s 1500 miles away and I would give anything to have him at the birth, to have him sign. He feels lost and confused, unhappy. But I don’t know what to do. No matter how much I love him, I can’t make him feel the same as he did before… I love him so much and would do anything to have him be a part of our lives. But I don’t know what to do.
Anonymous on April 22nd 2008 in Alone
Samantha said on 25 Apr 2008 at 12:01 pm # Quote
Your situation is unfortunate and I feel for you, but you are in a different place now. You have a baby on the way and you can not be concerned with your self. You have to let go of those things because the greatest little thing is about to enter your life, he or she is going to need all of your love and attention. As far as I am concerned, you should put your relationship on the back burner and focus on your child. Even if things do not work out romantically with the father of your child he will always be your child’s father.