Comments on: Alone http://www.secret-confessions.com/alone/alone-8 Confess your deepest, darkest secret Sun, 15 Jan 2012 05:12:22 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: Hey sister http://www.secret-confessions.com/alone/alone-8/comment-page-1#comment-9199 Hey sister Tue, 31 Aug 2010 13:09:20 +0000 http://www.secret-confessions.com/?p=6015#comment-9199 I am an 18 girl in Australia. Sometimes I just want to cry when I read things like this. I am the same as you in terms of not being able to trust friendships either. Sometimes I feel so fake and alone especially since I live by myself. Please pull through, I want to know there is still hope for girls like us !! :D I am an 18 girl in Australia. Sometimes I just want to cry when I read things like this. I am the same as you in terms of not being able to trust friendships either. Sometimes I feel so fake and alone especially since I live by myself. Please pull through, I want to know there is still hope for girls like us !! :D

]]> By: robbie http://www.secret-confessions.com/alone/alone-8/comment-page-1#comment-6643 robbie Thu, 20 May 2010 08:54:39 +0000 http://www.secret-confessions.com/?p=6015#comment-6643 i feel for you i know what its like to be in your shoes i have got through this since i was 17 and i am now 24 i live in australia too..... i really hope things get better for you..... Remember smile :-) i feel for you i know what its like to be in your shoes i have got through this since i was 17 and i am now 24 i live in australia too….. i really hope things get better for you….. Remember smile :-)

]]> By: RonnieDaCentaur http://www.secret-confessions.com/alone/alone-8/comment-page-1#comment-5701 RonnieDaCentaur Tue, 16 Mar 2010 15:44:13 +0000 http://www.secret-confessions.com/?p=6015#comment-5701 You are a good person who feels trapped. Dad is a bored man who needs more sex from mom. Low paying job= you must go to school for skills. New Boyfriend will occur as you move into the world. Their problems are not yours. Do good for yourself: wall off your brother and his witch, Do not give into depression. Go and do good things and then see how things will improve. If fat, lose the weight and branch out. High school is artificial relationships. God Bless and pray You are a good person who feels trapped. Dad is a bored man who needs more sex from mom. Low paying job= you must go to school for skills.
New Boyfriend will occur as you move into the world. Their problems are not yours.
Do good for yourself: wall off your brother and his witch,
Do not give into depression.
Go and do good things and then see how things will improve. If fat, lose the weight and branch out. High school is artificial relationships.
God Bless and pray

]]> By: m http://www.secret-confessions.com/alone/alone-8/comment-page-1#comment-5409 m Fri, 19 Feb 2010 15:05:33 +0000 http://www.secret-confessions.com/?p=6015#comment-5409 i feel the same as you, why u think i even found this? i feel the same as you, why u think i even found this?

]]> By: Red http://www.secret-confessions.com/alone/alone-8/comment-page-1#comment-5375 Red Sun, 14 Feb 2010 17:50:55 +0000 http://www.secret-confessions.com/?p=6015#comment-5375 i second that ^_^ i second that ^_^

]]> By: Joolz http://www.secret-confessions.com/alone/alone-8/comment-page-1#comment-5372 Joolz Sat, 13 Feb 2010 04:29:49 +0000 http://www.secret-confessions.com/?p=6015#comment-5372 One of the best ways to forget your problems (and let's face it, these are not YOUR problems, but the problems of the people around you) is to help another person. See if your family could send you to go and look after your Nanna in NZ. This would get you away from their problems, away from your crap job, and into a different space where you are responsible only for yourself (and your Nanna) and other people's crap doesn't invade your brain. This will also give you a chance to think about what YOU want to do, whether it is study, or investigate a different career path, or travel. It's your life, and you need to take control, which is difficult for anybody when the emotional blackmail that relatives and friends are so good at, is overwhelming. Often, these people think they know us better than we know ourselves, but we all grow, and sometimes getting away from them for a short period will help us sort out who we are and what we want. Good luck. One of the best ways to forget your problems (and let’s face it, these are not YOUR problems, but the problems of the people around you) is to help another person.
See if your family could send you to go and look after your Nanna in NZ. This would get you away from their problems, away from your crap job, and into a different space where you are responsible only for yourself (and your Nanna) and other people’s crap doesn’t invade your brain.
This will also give you a chance to think about what YOU want to do, whether it is study, or investigate a different career path, or travel.
It’s your life, and you need to take control, which is difficult for anybody when the emotional blackmail that relatives and friends are so good at, is overwhelming. Often, these people think they know us better than we know ourselves, but we all grow, and sometimes getting away from them for a short period will help us sort out who we are and what we want. Good luck.

]]> By: Red http://www.secret-confessions.com/alone/alone-8/comment-page-1#comment-5356 Red Wed, 10 Feb 2010 06:56:23 +0000 http://www.secret-confessions.com/?p=6015#comment-5356 Life is what you make it. In your case very difficult. I've tried "running" away from family issues. i moved across the country to get away from all of the drama. ultimately i came back home. that whole friends and trust thing is one of the hardest things to learn. you'll find a way to cope and get through that...you'll feel out who your "real" friends are and you'll learn who's just there for the fun of it. i think once you strike out on your own with no Roomies. Just you and your alone time will give your self time to think, your personal space, and a different sense of self. that will make a BIG difference. you can't control everything. but what you can do is learn from other people's mistakes...take it all in stride. make the best of things. don't wear yourself down. Here is the thing...you....are only human...only one person. Don't care what other people think about you. someday, whenever fate decides..your fortune will change for the better and things will be lots better for you. have faith in yourself and your actions, and trust your instincts. You'll do good^_^ Life is what you make it. In your case very difficult. I’ve tried “running” away from family issues. i moved across the country to get away from all of the drama. ultimately i came back home. that whole friends and trust thing is one of the hardest things to learn. you’ll find a way to cope and get through that…you’ll feel out who your “real” friends are and you’ll learn who’s just there for the fun of it. i think once you strike out on your own with no Roomies. Just you and your alone time will give your self time to think, your personal space, and a different sense of self. that will make a BIG difference. you can’t control everything. but what you can do is learn from other people’s mistakes…take it all in stride. make the best of things. don’t wear yourself down. Here is the thing…you….are only human…only one person. Don’t care what other people think about you. someday, whenever fate decides..your fortune will change for the better and things will be lots better for you. have faith in yourself and your actions, and trust your instincts.

You’ll do good^_^

]]> By: suzy q http://www.secret-confessions.com/alone/alone-8/comment-page-1#comment-5350 suzy q Wed, 10 Feb 2010 03:52:33 +0000 http://www.secret-confessions.com/?p=6015#comment-5350 Srry to hear all that, know there are other sad sobs browsing the internet who actually do read your story. On the parents... isn't there a way to prove it? On the brother... Gf's come and pass especially if he is just 20 yo. He will turn around eventually. On the bad friends... If they sleep with current bf's kick em out of your life (same goes for the bf's). If they sleep with exes... all you can do is warn em about your ex. On the education or work... Education is the key to better work... community college an option? And on the suicidal friend... Best is to get past it just like he/she did. Most times it is a cry for help. Srry to hear all that, know there are other sad sobs browsing the internet who actually do read your story.
On the parents… isn’t there a way to prove it?
On the brother… Gf’s come and pass especially if he is just 20 yo. He will turn around eventually.
On the bad friends… If they sleep with current bf’s kick em out of your life (same goes for the bf’s). If they sleep with exes… all you can do is warn em about your ex.
On the education or work… Education is the key to better work… community college an option?
And on the suicidal friend… Best is to get past it just like he/she did. Most times it is a cry for help.

]]> By: Miss http://www.secret-confessions.com/alone/alone-8/comment-page-1#comment-5349 Miss Tue, 09 Feb 2010 22:36:41 +0000 http://www.secret-confessions.com/?p=6015#comment-5349 There are a few spelling mistakes i just notices as i was reading through it.. Was just writitng not really paying attention to details of my spelling. Board i pay is $100 not $10. There are a few spelling mistakes i just notices as i was reading through it.. Was just writitng not really paying attention to details of my spelling. Board i pay is $100 not $10.

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