Alone
Posted by Anonymous in Alone on May 13th, 2008 | 6 commentsI think that I am falling in love with a girl. She’s one of my best friends. I don’t know if she feels the same way about me. I’m too scared to ask her because I have so much emotional scarring from people cutting me down all my childhood. I have never been in a relationship. I want to be with her and have for the past 2 years but I don’t know if I can handle the rejection. I’m scared of my emotions. I hate myself.
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Maybe you can send her an anonymous letter, saying that someone likes her… Your are her friend, maybe the one she will tell about the letter. If she seems intersted in the anonymous admirer the tell her to meet you somewhere that she likes and surprise her yourself.
If you dont do somthing soon it will be too late, and you will always wonder what you missed. Seriously the worst that will happen is she will say no. If she truly is your friend then just tell her to forget it ever happened and move on. Don’t get your heart set on it, but you never know untill you try. I used to think that I HAD to be with this one girl, I loved her. She cheated on me about three times and I finaly left. It took me about a year to get over her but now I live in Japan and have a Japanese girlfriend. Just remember, “This too shall pass” Meaning no matter what troubles you have in your life eventually they wont matter. Somthing will change and they will be irrelvant.
I hope you tell her and she feels the same. Good luck!!! if you do make sure you post it on here so we know!
Don’t do it! I guarantee you will destroy the great friendship you already have if you express your feelings to this person after 2 years. believe me if the other person felt the same way, it would have already happend.
Im going through a similar situation and should probably listen to my own advice, but it sounds to me as if you need to either say something to her or you might never know how she feels? And if you leave it too long she might meet someone else and then you would be hurt anyway. It also sounds like you need to learn to love yourself a bit more. I hope it works out for you. X
Hi, i read ur confessions, u knw what u reminds me myself, but my friend go and tell her about what u are thinking abt her, what are ur feelings, otherwise it is really hard to live with a secret in your heart, dont be affraid of rejection, may she is also suffering from the same, hoep u can say it and u will get what u want. i m telling it to u ‘cuase i have the same experience and now i m suffering badly, go and tell her
I think I got the same thing like you..
but he’s not my best friend, juz my friend.but we the same both because we scare to tell the person who we love..
don’t hate your self because it’s not your choice.it’s suddently happen to you, rigth..?? I think we juz love victim..
come on..don’t be afraid.be brave..I think U will get her..
Dude don’t do it.
If you don’t think/know that she feels the same. Just don’t do it.
It’ll mess her up so much.
Well it did me. I hate to sugarcoat this and I equally hate taking back at you, but just don’t do it. If she doesn’t love you in that way you’ll just mess her up.
She’ll get crazy thoughts like ”did he/she ever cared for me? or was it all just to get in my pants?” and those kinds of thoughts drive you insane.
They do.