i want to break up with my boyfriend but his dad has just been diagnosed with cancer

Wow, just writing the title makes me feel so evil that I’m even thinking about my part in this! I truly love my boyfriend but it has been four years, I am in my 30s and he just isn’t committing. I have finally worked up the courage to end it (which will break my heart but I have to be strong and realistic) and now … Continue reading i want to break up with my boyfriend but his dad has just been diagnosed with cancer

Won’t touch me, but she wan’ts to have sex with other men.

My GF and I rarely have sex anymore, and last month I cheated on her with a coworker, and guilt ate me alive, but I was made to promise not to tell anyone. Two days later my GF told me she wants to have sex with other guys, and that I can screw other women. My heart sank. I didn’t want other women, I wanted … Continue reading Won’t touch me, but she wan’ts to have sex with other men.

Phobias

My secret is I have two phobias that are ruining my life. One is fear of telephones. The ring of one alone is enough to send me into a panic attack. I have to “work up” to using one, and that’s really, really hard to do. Right now I can’t even bring myself to call my damned voice mail. My other phobia is of finances. … Continue reading Phobias